i know he's doing something because i have confronted him and i had a confession a few weeks ago and now he denying it....now what should i do when i know something is going on.
2006-08-25 01:52:30 · 11 answers · asked by Nichole 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Toss him to the street, as they say kick him to the curb!
2006-08-25 01:57:37 · answer #1 · answered by marie1257 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately no one can answer that question for you. The decision you make will alter your life. People make mistakes, men usually cheat for a reason (but not always, some men are just pigs. Yes, sometimes we admit it!) You can always wonder or try to find the reason and fix it. You might be surprised, it could be something you both lacked / needed. Boom goes the dynamite, he's busted. If your relationship's worth saving and you can forgive him, then work on it. Counseling can also help you come to a decision. As the great dear Abby once asked, "Ask yourself, would you be better off with him or without him?" Good luck.
2006-08-25 02:20:29 · answer #2 · answered by Mike 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Still too vague. He is doing "something"? What did he confess?
You know the answers to those questions, but I don't, so here's what you have to ask yourself: are his behaviors acceptable? Apparently they are not, or you wouldn't be asking this question.
Once again, my answer remains the same: talk with him. Tell him how what he did made you feel and tell him how to prevent it from happening in the future. You have a right to demand exclusivity in your marriage.
Hold him accountable. He said what he said when he confessed. Tell him you believed his confession when he made it, and that you are going to go forward based on the assumption that it is true. You don't need to know the identity of his cell phone caller -- you already know what he's doing, so who he's doing it with is irrelevant. The point is that you must communicate to him the seriousness of the betrayal of trust you are feeling, including how sad it makes you and how frightened you feel for your relationship's future.
2006-08-25 02:03:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask yourself, if things continue, do you really need proof in order for you to be happy and trust this man? Even if he is not doing something physical, emotional and mental issues are just as important.
2006-08-25 02:04:49 · answer #4 · answered by Erica, AKA Stretch 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should check his phone bill, his emails. By checking the history on your computer, you may be able to find out what sites he is going to and maybe come accross some valuable information. Can you follow him when he goes out or check up on him when he is where hes suppose to be?
2006-08-25 01:58:51 · answer #5 · answered by mick r 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Confront him, ask him why and search your soul to see if you want to stay with him. If not, as hard as it is, move forward and do what you need to do. Not with revenge, but with your needs first....
2006-08-25 02:03:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NIKKI,AS TO THE FIRST ANSWERE,DONT KNOW IF YOU ARE ABLE TO,BUT A YOUNG PRETTY LADY LIKE YOU SHOULDNT HAVE ANY TROUBLE FINDING A MAN TO RESPECT AND LOVE YOU......BUT FIRST GET DIVORCED OR SEPERATED..DAVE
2006-08-25 02:27:28 · answer #7 · answered by lickit4u 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it's on his cellphone, hide it one morning, deny having it and answer it when it rings... have fun..
2006-08-25 02:12:45 · answer #8 · answered by Common Sense 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fix the problem in the best way you can.
2006-08-25 02:16:57 · answer #9 · answered by cobrasnake 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would dump his *** find a lawyer and nail him for child support and alimony and have no mercy
2006-08-25 03:18:37 · answer #10 · answered by little ace 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋