how can i find out whose been calling him with an unavailable number on his cell phone when i'm not an authorized user of his phone?????????????????????
2006-08-25 01:41:10 · 18 answers · asked by Nichole 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Why don't you ask him? A marriage has to be based on love,trust, and fidelity. If you're this suspicious you may need to reevaluate your marriage. Search for the problem between the two of you, not for an unavailable cell phone number. Mistresses don't end marriages, uncommitted husbands do.
2006-08-25 01:47:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Easy -- ask him.
Look, it's clear you don't trust him. You need to put that lack of trust, and your reasons for the lack, on the table. The two of you would do well to sit down and have a long talk. Tell him about your feelings of insecurity, and tell him what he could to that would help you to feel more secure. Only by opening a dialogue can the trust in your relationship begin to be re-established.
Snooping will only work if you find out he's been cheating on you AND then you leave him, which is a pretty bad result. There are other potential outcomes of snooping; for example, what if you find out that the number on his cell is innocent? In that case, the fear, distrust, and suspicion all remain for the NEXT time an unidentified call comes in.
You're only going to start feeling better in this relationship if you start communicating, openly and honestly.
2006-08-25 01:51:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'd take the direct approach. Ask him about it. (Unless you know him to be a good liar.) If he's evasive or defensive on the subject, you'll know it's time to get suspicious.
As a husband, I don't particularly advocate sneaking around and spying on a spouse. It shows a lack of trust and, if he finds out and there's nothing to it, he may not be too understanding about the spying.
However, if you've got more than just phone calls that make you concerned - a change in your relationship with him (especially a lack of intimacy), he's "working late" a lot more, or wants to go places without you with no good reason why - then maybe it's time to call that show "Cheaters" on WB to check him out.
2006-08-25 01:52:39 · answer #3 · answered by Shaman 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Call the compandy he has service with,tell them you have been using your husbands cell phone and someone keeps cakking you need to kown the number because it isn't showing up. Then hunt doun the address of that number.Then call it and say,he is mined and is staying mine,so give it up! Or leave a note at the address saying I know who you are, Back off!
2006-08-25 02:08:38 · answer #4 · answered by indiana 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Read some tips on this site on how to catch a cheating lover
2006-08-25 01:44:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
try using google desktop. it's not for phones but to see what has been on your computer. all you do is type a name or word (i used the letter a and caught my husband cheating on me). it is very simple
2006-08-25 03:36:07 · answer #6 · answered by melinda w 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u can call the cell company and im sure you know all his info and they can tell you where the number is coming from
2006-08-25 02:02:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just get that "gut feeling". You can either confront him about it, or keep checking on his cell, e-mails, and other accounts. Be sure you get checked for STD. Good Luck.
2006-08-25 01:48:56 · answer #8 · answered by Michael S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DOnt check on your husband. Some how rather u will know when he cheats on u.
2006-08-25 01:53:40 · answer #9 · answered by angelinecja 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WELL LITTLE LADY IF HE IS CHEATING HEs AN ASSHOLE BECAUSE BY THE LOOKS OF YOU HE SHOULD BE PROUD TO HAVE A PRETTY GIRL UNDER HIS ARM....GET RID ON THE DOUCHBAG AND GET SOMEONE WHO WILL BE PLEASED TO HAVE YOU>>DAVE
2006-08-25 02:11:12 · answer #10 · answered by lickit4u 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋