is it OK to have sex before marriage
tell me with girls point of view
2006-08-25 01:39:59 · 24 answers · asked by Your Friend 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Stick to wankin for a few more years babe!
Sex will come naturally when you are ready! Whether it is before or after marriage is up to you and your partner!
2006-08-25 01:43:10 · answer #1 · answered by Angel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh God i am going to sound like a whore. Ok well i had sex with four people before i met my husband and i am glad that i did. i think that we need to experiment before we tie the knot. Not to say that if you are a virgin that you should go and screw the first person that walks by but i think that you need to get out there. IF you love someone or feel strongly for them then why not have sex. But you should always be careful. She may look clean but you never know if she has a disease or she may say she is on the pill but you don't know that. So i suggest that you always bag it before you tag it get my drift. but yeah this is how i feel this is how i always felt. I am not a whore. I had five partners in my life. That is not many and i am married to the 5 . good luck.. and live it up .
2006-08-25 01:44:56 · answer #2 · answered by littleluvkitty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Every person is different, so I can't speak for all girls or all people.
I think sex before marriage is a choice that each person decides for him or herself if it is right or wrong.
Today is a new generation, and many more people are waiting until they are older to get married, unlike say my parents and grandparents who many got married in or right out of high school.
With the waiting to get married, it's hard not to experiement with sex, and I personally don't hold it against anyone who is an adult.
But if you are under 18, you should consider waiting a little longer.
2006-08-25 01:45:09 · answer #3 · answered by anabele6 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From a biblical stand point no it is not right to have sex before you are married. In today's society it is acceptable, because most people don't look to the Bible for direction. This subject varies from person to person, so it just depends on what your thoughts on this subject is. I would recommend you wait until marriage. If you decide not to wait be safe and be careful. Good luck!
2006-08-25 01:54:40 · answer #4 · answered by Jewells 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my opinion it is more than fine. I think a person needs to experience sex before they get married. There are some people that want to save that for their new spouse and I wouldn't argue with them. thats their choice
2006-08-25 01:46:52 · answer #5 · answered by justem 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people say love is like a pair of shoes, you have to try before you decide to buy or not. It all depends on your mutual feeling about it but never forget to use condoms.
2006-08-25 01:55:14 · answer #6 · answered by prunelle 6 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're really into that person, go for it!! Sex is always ok when both people want it to happen. Sex is meant to be fun, not to be stressed over.
2006-08-25 01:43:13 · answer #7 · answered by T.G. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well....this will be an unpopular answer but its mine just the same.... NO - you should save yourself for marriage. Just think how special it would be if you saved yourself for the person you want to spend the rest of your life with. God commanded us to wait. Paul says in 1 Corinthians 7:32-35
32I would like you to be free from concern. An unmarried man is concerned about the Lord's affairs—how he can please the Lord. 33But a married man is concerned about the affairs of this world—how he can please his wife— 34and his interests are divided. An unmarried woman or virgin is concerned about the Lord's affairs: Her aim is to be devoted to the Lord in both body and spirit. But a married woman is concerned about the affairs of this world—how she can please her husband. 35I am saying this for your own good, not to restrict you, but that you may live in a right way in undivided devotion to the Lord.
So keep yourself pure.....serve the Lord....if your interested in how you can serve the Lord or just curious about christianity.....please feel free to leave me an email.
2006-08-25 01:47:28 · answer #8 · answered by A Christians Honest Question 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on if you both want to have sex. I think you should, to see if you are sexually compatable, but a lot of people want to save themselves or do it for religious reasons. Sex doesn't mean all that much to everyone.
2006-08-25 01:43:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
In this day and age I think it's the norm. I think it's somewhat romantic to save yourself, but I am feel like unless you can 100% faithful and never think about what it would be like to be with someone else then go for it. But tempation is very strong!!!
2006-08-25 01:43:05 · answer #10 · answered by B V 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋