She is 24 years old and works in a bar. She is doing it with everybody, with man from 20-60, sometimes with more of them at once. I ask myself does she have any self-esteem? What do you think?
2006-08-25 01:36:33 · 22 answers · asked by ninas 2 in Arts & Humanities ➔ Other - Arts & Humanities
The girl could have had issues in her family life. Her father could have abandoned her or her mother as well. She was probably lacking something she needed so instead she tries to find it in sleeping with guys because at the moment it makes her feel good like someone cares for her. Sometimes people confuse love with sex. She's most likely trying to make up for what she is lacking,.
2006-08-25 01:45:16 · answer #1 · answered by butterflykisses427 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'll tell you what's wrong with her. She's got at least two STD's. HPV for starters, because something like 40% of the population has it already anyway. Yeah, you guys have it too but you'll never have symptoms and there's no test to prove it. But you can pass it on, that's how they know. So that's one. Probably HAS had clamidia, one of the other fav's of the population. Also, possibly has herpes, and down the line may find that she has HIV. Or just AIDS if she waits long enough to get tested.
2006-08-25 08:52:07 · answer #2 · answered by Jeffery K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no guy would take her seriously , even if he wants to . because other guys would make fun of him, make comments like how they had her , or that she is a slut. etc. Although its different with women because they dont care much about history even if the guy has been slept with a zillion girls , no one questions his self respect, I guess it should be equal for all humans but life's not like that. I know a very beutifull waitress who does the same , I think most people who have such commitment problems tend to generally suffer with low self respect , even eric clapton admitted that it helped his self esteem as he thaugt that he had acheived something by doing many girls.
2006-08-25 08:45:27 · answer #3 · answered by Success & Money 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a prostitute...but if it's more than that could be she's working something out. It's funny how often we judge women more than guys. If a guy was doing this, most people would be "it's a guy thing". But if it's a woman, oh how wrong, oh how immoral, etc.
People are individuals and they make choices. I don't think what she's doing is very safe (protection wise). I'd worry about AIDS or other problems (like mental illness...sex addicts, etc). It's her choice and I'd get over it if I were you and focus on myself.
2006-08-25 08:43:13 · answer #4 · answered by Peaceonearth 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Poor girl, i bet she hates herself and what she is doing, looking for validation or love anywhere she can.
She probably needs counselling of some sort, I bet she was abused as a child.
Sounds like she needs a non judgmental friend to talk too.
Of course she might just like sex, but if that was the case she could get a regular guy, her behaviour isnt normal.
2006-08-25 08:48:24 · answer #5 · answered by livachic2005 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just with those data, we cannot assume there's something wrong with her.
if you give more detail, i.e. her moods, her health, we can find out, in our opinion, if there could be something wrong with her.
think that if it was a 24-year-old man you were talking about, perhaps you did not suspect there's something wrong with him.
having sex with men from 20-60, daily¿?, and sometines wiht more of them at once, is not, per se, a sign of any pathology.
ask her!
2006-08-25 08:49:06 · answer #6 · answered by marumaar 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She definitely needs counseling because she has big time problems. I hope that she can recognize that this behavior is a call for help and will seek it accordingly. These symptoms are not unique, and she should know that she can get knowledgeable, non judgmental counseling.
2006-08-25 09:35:42 · answer #7 · answered by ElOsoBravo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the thing is she is possessed with the spirit of immorality and she lacks self control. she might not really like what she's doing but she has not been able able to deal with her problem. it's not good for her spirit- it kills it, her soul- it demoralises it and her body- it destroys it. but definitely, sex is a master to which she is a slave. no matter the reason, we all have choices to make.
2006-08-25 08:59:15 · answer #8 · answered by bunmi o 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is looking for love in all the wrong places. (Sometimes the songs are true). Odds are she was either abused by a male figure.
2006-08-25 08:40:39 · answer #9 · answered by cdfrx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like most mens dream girl! Why do you worry about her lifstyle?
2006-08-25 08:43:00 · answer #10 · answered by mark g 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋