She calls him out every night and always nags him to take her out
2006-08-25 01:32:45 · 6 answers · asked by kiki 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You need to have a talk with your man and find out if she is moving in on him and let him. Pull your friend aside and tell her to go after different guys.
2006-08-25 01:39:55 · answer #1 · answered by Think.for.your.self 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me that it is not just your friend, he is dating you both and she is acting as though she had him first and she is demanding his time and demanding him to show her that he loves her because he has obviously told her that he does, and is keeping her on a leash for whatever reason he may have. I was just in her shoes only I didn't know that was happening and I suspected there was someone else but I didn't have proof. It is the most scary, heart breaking thing to try to hold onto someone that claims they love you and only you, and the whole time what you fear most is whats really going on. That they don't love you at all and that they are using you. I suggest you both let him go and move on. He is a user and a breaker of hearts, and if you stick with him, you will be next. You will be your friend and you will find yourself acting just like her. Blessed be.
2006-08-25 09:40:33 · answer #2 · answered by shy&gental 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would start with calling my girlfriend and says something like this..."Why are you going after my boyfriend. I thought we were friends. I thought you would understand that someone else trying to take him away from me would really hurt. Could you please stop calling him?" And if she gave me a hard time on the phone saying she wasn't doing it...or that she didn't care...I wouldn't consider her my freind anymore and I would tell her so.
Then I would ask my boyfriend...."What do you think of (my friend's name) calling him all the time?" I would tell him that I know that he is free to date whomever he wants....but that it is interfering in my ability to feel trust in him and that good relationships are based on trust. I would ask him if he would please stop dating her because it hurts that she doesn't care enough about you to not approach your boyfriends. Tell him that you understand he is free to date anyone else...but please not her. If he gives you a hard time...I would say...."Your not acting with integrity to our relationship...and although I thought I liked you alot....I need a boyfriend I can trust." And I would end it with him if he didn't understand.
And then I would go home and cry and cry and cry.....and the tears will hurt but they will help you let go. IN a few days to a few weeks the pain about this will probably let go.
And I would be more careful about who I called my friend in the future. You deserve friends who are caring and compassionate, and who would never do something like this.
2006-08-25 08:49:13 · answer #3 · answered by Sharon H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if ur babe loves u truly then he shud not go out with her or anyone else other than u,,no matter how much she nags him.. AND pls speak to ur friend ,tell her that he is ur boyfriend but tell her very kindly so that she is not hurt as she is ur friend.
2006-08-25 08:44:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it doesn't matter coz as long as HE knows that u love each other and as long as YOU know that you love each other then who is she to flirt with him.....at the end of the day he's gonna come home to you just ignore her she wants you to think like that...
2006-08-25 08:43:40 · answer #5 · answered by gaWjus 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not understanding...
2006-08-25 08:36:16 · answer #6 · answered by IMHO 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋