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2006-08-25 01:24:37 · 9 answers · asked by annaruthbenjamin 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Why do people get divorced?
1) It's an easy way out.
2) Someone cheats. Men for sex, women to feel emotionally connected (or sometimes the opposite)
3) The couple doesn't put in the hard work required to make the other person feel loved, wanted, or desired.
4) They give up.
5) People want to feel fireworks all the time. I think it's possible to feel them soemtimes, but not like when you first meet. It's tough when the husband's working 10 hours a day and the mother is running after three kids, or the other way around.
2006-08-25 01:29:57 · answer #1 · answered by AnswerMom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think love is the issue. Divorce is not easy way out either. No one knows what is going to happen to each individual during the time of the marriage. I found that after 22 years of marriage I was alone and living a separate life. We grew apart no common interest and no connection. I have tried individual and couples therapy but it was useless since my ex didn't want the same and wouldn't admit that there was problems. The best you can do is tried to be civil towards one another and move on. If you don't then the lawyers win and you are left with far less. You must try to be happy because you only get one chance in life. Good luck
2006-08-25 01:44:05 · answer #2 · answered by chancesare45 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you mean after years of marriage, they get a divorce? Because they grow apart. They tire of each other and another life sounds better than the one they are living. They lose communication, don't care anymore, they just give up. People change. That is all I can say.
2006-08-25 01:30:43 · answer #3 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because people changes after they getting old...their thinking are change, feeling is different to what they feel b4 and start to asking/looking for something else or new to explore, even the relationship, this commemts is base on those ppl who use that excuse to end a relationship and get a new relationship.
2006-08-25 01:35:45 · answer #4 · answered by pinky72 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe some people get married when they are still too young...
Individuals in their early 20s are just beginning to grow into the personalities they will develop as they continue to mature. The person you are at 21 will be somewhat different when you are 31 and 41. The attraction and personalities that a couple may have at 21 may take different paths as they grow into their individual selves.
If they were both club hoppers or religious church goers when they first met; as they mature, one may want to settle into an opposite lifestyle.
Some people just grow apart with different goals and expectations as they grow up.
2006-08-25 02:49:50 · answer #5 · answered by E. Gads 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
loving each other does not mean tolerating each other... it is like what my american felt... i love my mom but she is getting on my nerve...
some of the reason how they get each other nerve would be :
1) their tolerance for each other habit had broke and they cannot no longer stand the sight..
2) different in opinion in too many thing in life... the most problematic one being in family life... like schooling / educating of child, roles in the family, managing time and creating balance between work and family...
it is alway true that it is easier to get along without living together... thus... many pple suggest / think/ recommend cohabital first to see the REAL person that is behind the door or another method is to go travelling with them..
2006-08-25 01:35:38 · answer #6 · answered by Tricia 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no one can predict the future. people Rush into marriages, known nothing about it . They may think there ready . they start there own actives ,and men get in voled with work and woman get in voled with her daily duties .you have to make time,and remember you are a team and a couple make time for each other and still do little special things for each other
it dose take two people to keep a marriage going its hard work and alto of energy get to concealing hope it works
2006-08-25 01:57:23 · answer #7 · answered by charprid10 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At first they love each other then things happen and they start to grow apart. I think if more couples would communicate as they did when they were dating that the divorce rate would drop drastically!
2006-08-25 01:28:47 · answer #8 · answered by Hilllbilly_gal 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because what they once had isn't in existance anymore.
2006-08-25 01:30:28 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋