For the last couple days I have been breaking down (crying) but im not crying on the outside cuz my tears are dried out. he reason is cuz i broke up with my best friend , cuz we kept arguing so i just decided its better for us to not be friends and he agreed too. Now Im just brreaking down really badly, and even in school ..i cant get over it...maybe u guys are jus gonna say that to move on with my life but i use to be really close friends with him. Now we just lost it all and i dont think we're gonna be friends anymore.....im not kidding bout this so plz just dont give me an answer thats hurtful
2006-08-25 01:02:49 · 12 answers · asked by Kezia 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Perhaps the friendship shoud not have been broking up....just a time out would have done the trick. You guys need to be able to sit down and talk out your issues and if you disagree with something thats cool because you should be able to agree to disagree with issues and move on.
2006-08-25 01:06:54 · answer #1 · answered by Mean Carleen 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry for your pain. You are not alone though this happens to every one at some point in their lives something hurts so bad it changes who we are for a while. The thing to remember is that as the days go by the pain does get less and the hurt heals and you will talk to him again as long as you & him manage to keep it civil anyway.You could become good friends again just don't date him again keep it friends. Please remember too that if you loose one friend a new friend or two can enter your life you just need to be able to let them look around you there are alot of lonly people out there some even in your shoes!! Good luck!
2006-08-25 01:13:36 · answer #2 · answered by vtlovie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You said it yourself; you broke off the friendship because you decided it's better for you. You said you argued a lot.
What you are going through is normal. It takes a while to get over breaking up with your best friend.
As hard as it is to hear now, you will move on and make new friends and be happy again.
If you're still really upset, ask a grown-up at home to take you to see a counselor.
Good luck.
2006-08-25 01:07:07 · answer #3 · answered by AnswerMom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Breaking up with a friend / boyfriend is like a death in the family. Allow yourself time to grieve the past relationship, but do try to get out with friends or family members, have some fun, kick it up, try a new hobby and before you know it, you'll be over him.
2006-08-25 01:06:38 · answer #4 · answered by GirlinNB 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a nasty, difficult, painful process that you are going through. Every person in this situation has grieving to do. Keep doing yours, crying is good, and feeling miserable is good. Just keep going it and the hurting will gradually recede.
One tip. Praise yourself for your decision. There is no misery like being with the wrong person and staying with them because you hope the situation will improve.
2006-08-25 01:29:31 · answer #5 · answered by DelK 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if hes your friend, you can make someway to fix it. i used to date my guy friend, and after we broke up it was very hostile, but we're friends now, you need to talk to him about it, tell him you dont want to loose his friendship that hes an important part of your life, and that even though it didnt work out as a couple, you can still be friends and look back and laugh with each other.
just call and talk to him, or talk to him at school, talk to him anywhere, if your friends (like you say you are) then he'll forgive you and all will be fine. me and my ex bf (now my friend) look back and laugh at all the things we did when we dated.
2006-08-25 01:13:45 · answer #6 · answered by Xavier's Mommy ツ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you still like him you should try to become friends with him again if you think about him and you're thinking i hate him dont.If this is the case you will get over him after a while.Good luck
2006-08-25 01:09:52 · answer #7 · answered by johnjoesim 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it shows that you still care about your relationship. you should really talk to your friend. tell him what's bothering you every night and day. show him that you still care for this relationship. sort things out by communication. good luck to you and your b.friend
2006-08-25 01:08:43 · answer #8 · answered by Stephanie K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get over it and talk about it...you'll see will be for the best
2006-08-25 01:05:37 · answer #9 · answered by vineto 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oww! Dont do tt to yourself, show patience, do the best to you and him. You can find alternative friends here
2006-08-25 01:06:22 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋