so i have a bf he's cute i do luv him call him every day go out 2 gather but the past two weeks we had a fight big one but we fixed things up & ithink we 4 got that we were mad 4m ech other well i think only me who 4 got & after that fight he changed alot he stoped calling every day he used 2 call me 3_4 times a day now 1 time so do u think he stoped luvn me?
2006-08-25 00:53:02 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Dining Out ➔ Other - Dining Out
it is a little difficult to understand your question, but i do believe that perhpas the newness has worn off, and at such a young age, the ability for a man/boy to properly communicate his lack of motivation is almst non-existant. A female, at this point, has the advantage of describing her thoughts and feelings then the boy does.
This may help you, but not necessarily be what you want to hera:
Go to his house.
Tell him you are geniunely interested in knowing if he is bothered still by his idea of whatever the fight was about.( I am sure that something went wrong there. One person says one thing, but the other interprets it differently than it was intended.)
Apologize for your part in the argument, then TRULY listen to him. Don't interupt him, no matter how badly you'll want to.
if, in the end, you realize that it is not about the fight, then perhaps the fight was just an easier way to end things.
2006-08-25 01:05:17 · answer #1 · answered by Fitchurg Girl 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
no it is not that he don't luv ya or anything!! it is just he still have some issues in his mind u ned to talk with about like what makde u in first place had a fight and what u two can do to let things never got that bad and never get to mad at each others and always when u two have anything bothers any of u just let it out and tell the other immediately so u can put the whole thing away from ur head and always try to leave to each others spaces to miss each other when don't se or hear each other voices that make him or u get alot better hope that answer ur question:).
2006-08-25 01:01:52 · answer #2 · answered by joe m 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
He probably still loves you just that he is taking extra time off to cool off and is now very cautious, think twice before calling you or talking to you because he does not want to have another fight and does not want to be the one to start the fight by saying or doing something stupid. he's not sure what will be classified as something stupid by you, so just give hiim some time, don't lose touch, he will be back to normal soon.
2006-08-25 01:03:11 · answer #3 · answered by Batman Simon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Shop around. Theere are plenty of fish in the sea. Sounds like an infatuation, rather than true love.
2006-08-25 01:01:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
get off your ego
you start calling him 3_ 4 times.
he ll understand u r luv.
2006-08-25 01:10:08 · answer #5 · answered by kummu 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ask him over dinner while you are dining out.
2006-08-26 03:45:23 · answer #6 · answered by mom 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes he is just stringing you along now, he will dump you in a week or so.
You should dump him first.
2006-08-25 01:01:22 · answer #7 · answered by areyoustupid3214 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
true luv lasts more your thought.
2006-08-25 02:47:57 · answer #8 · answered by zeus 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey if you have to ask yourself its not love anyway 4get about 'em
2006-08-25 00:59:42 · answer #9 · answered by renee4201223 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It could be because you can't spell
2006-08-26 10:05:14 · answer #10 · answered by gorillaguth 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋