Everyone in my family says I am a good Cook.
My husband will not go to my mom and dad's house he is rather strange.
He refuses to cook for himself
But he asks me to make him supper and leave it in the microwave or in the Fridge. But I find it in the Garbage or he doesn't eat it .
He is just plain ol Lazy he eats fast food all the time and he does so then I do to sometimes this is driving me crazy( He is the perfect fit for a COUCH POTATO!!) He drives me nuts some days!!!
he not romantic in any way shape or form
Can I make him be more romantic and think of me once in while and is this wrong for me to what that??
2006-08-25 00:41:08 · 21 answers · asked by ? 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You serve him well cooked food, particularly those items he prefers to take from fast food joints. Once he is convinced that your cooked food tastes much better than those available outside, he will never prefer out side food. It all depends how well you cook.
2006-08-25 00:51:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then why in the hell did you marry him in the first place...
No, baby... you are not going to be able to change him, you can't change anyone. HE is going to have to change himself, but you can help him change his ways.
#1 Stop cooking for him if he's going to eat fast food and throw your cooked meals in the trash... that's an insult!
#2 Don't give in to sex, without the romance! I know it will be hard (excuse the pun) but I'm assuming he had to be romantic at some point, during your relationship, to woo you into having sex; so make him work for it again!
#3 If he's eating fast food, a couch potato, and not having sex... increase his insurance policy because he's a sure candidate for heart disease!
2006-08-25 07:58:59 · answer #2 · answered by E. Gads 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm so sorry for you. really. if you cook and he doesnt eat, stop cooking for HIM. just make enough for you if you dont want the fast gunk. and if he didnt start out as a lovey toughy huggy guy then sory to dissapoint you but he probably will not ever be. i dont like to tell people to leave each other so i wont tell you that because you did marry him for a reason you just have to remind yourself everyday what made you fall in love with him to start with. good luck
2006-08-25 07:52:02 · answer #3 · answered by short 1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't say how long you have been married!!! And, when you were going out did he or didn't he go to your parents house??? If he isn't romantic with you now, it probably won't change much. And neither will the other behaviors.... So, be prepared to put up with a lot more. Or get out!!!
2006-08-25 07:48:13 · answer #4 · answered by winona e 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I suggest you go to a fast food restaurant he likes every day, and buy him one or two,big french fries, two or three big hamburgers, and two Apple pies, and a nice large Coke, so everytime dinner times come, and he feels hungry, and you are not there, he will be thinking of you. And afther he is satisfied with the food you bring him from that fast food restaurant, he will be thanking you so much for taking the time to care and remember him, that he will become so nice to you that, he might be willing to burn all those callories expending time with you at the shopping store, the gym, or being busy with you doing the wild thing in bed at night.
It is a simple theory I use here:
Remembering of your name will be associated, with the obtaining later, of a pleasurable reward food. The obtaining of the foods, from you will be compensaited by him, to you, for your everyday dedicated efford, by him being willing to burn all that energy in giving you quality intimate relationship in bed at night.
2006-08-25 08:01:06 · answer #5 · answered by Dejan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow woman the reason you got married was? Take it slow, take time to read through your own question and try to understand your man and remember everything that made you marry him if he has changed try and find out why maybe he has some other problems apart from you two. help him out all you can before you start stressing yourself out for reasons you do not understand.
2006-08-25 07:56:56 · answer #6 · answered by Ycul72 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why the hell did you marry someone that wasn't what you wanted. Do you think you can change him?
You say your new husband and with your questions I am trying to figure out why you even married him. Was he ordered through a catalog and you forgot to read about his baggage.
2006-08-25 07:49:05 · answer #7 · answered by Mit 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not wrong for you to want it but talk to him about it and never ever believe you will make him change just cause you did you gotta talk to him and hope he will change and if he was like that before you got married then you screwed up by marrying him and thinking you could change him already and its a lost cause if he wasn't like that well now you see the true him and good luck after that
2006-08-25 07:47:05 · answer #8 · answered by OZoNE 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
See if it is not too late for an annulment. If you are serious with the question - I'm serious with my answer. Why would you want to stay with this person who obviously has major problems and they will get worse.
2006-08-25 07:46:38 · answer #9 · answered by Chloe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No its not wrong, sounds like a classic case of conquest fatigue!
Guys like the chase, once they get what they wanted they get lazy.
You need to put some fear of losing you back into that man!
Tell him what you want & how you feel!
2006-08-25 07:45:38 · answer #10 · answered by lostintheclover 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋