2006-08-25 00:37:03 · 18 answers · asked by rexford m 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Of course I would feel devastated. If that's the case I wouldn't give him a second chance. He cheated on me once and he could do it again. If that happened, it is possible that it was my fault but then again it could also be because of him. There is a saying: it takes two to tango.
2006-08-25 00:56:33 · answer #1 · answered by phoenix 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I found out three months ago my husband of 7 months had been cheating on me since Jan...feel so betrayed. Everyone cheats for different reasons, but the point is it is their reason, even if someone has legimate reasons for being unhappy in a relationship its the old two wrongs don't make a right! Its up to the the person who is unhappy to let the other person know and give them the chance to try to make changes/break up/see what they want to do. On the other hand, some people (like my husband) just wanted to have me and also the thrill of the chase with other women! so in my case, Grass is greener syndrome!
2006-08-25 01:36:45 · answer #2 · answered by Grace O 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look, I'm not about to take the blame for any man cheating. I never told them to cheat, they decide to do that all on their own. So what's up with this "Did I cause it to happen?" Dude, I don't even think so! And if I had a man that cheated, his *** would be out that door so damn fast it would make his head swing.
2006-08-25 00:44:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It feels like a nightmare!! One of those sad,losing someone you love kind of nightmares. Like it takes awhile to really hit you and realize that it's really happening. And to top it off, that trust you once had in them is gone. COMPLETELY GONE!! You question everything! You start having thoughts cross your mind for anything he does ie... phone calls, car breaking down, taking 15 min to get home when you live 10 min away. Specially if you know details about the relationship he had. For example being told he was going to go play basketball w/a friend when in reality he was with her. So when he wants to really go play basketball it leaves you feeling like your hearts going to burst cause the pain is so unbearable!
A part of me does feel like it was my fault, like I wasn't enough. But then I feel I gave it my all. Now I just play it by the day expecting for something to happen.
Can you tell I've been cheated on!!
2006-08-25 01:05:01 · answer #4 · answered by Blujeenz♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some men like their cake and eat it!! Mine cheated on me, despite the fact our sex life wasn't boring through dressing up, role plays etc, yet he was still a cheating git, and swore he'd never do it again, but he did. So yes once a cheat always a cheat
2006-08-25 07:34:34 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
my man did cheat on me about 4 weeks ago. He thought the grass would be greener but soon realised it wouldn't. (stupid ugly fat old **** ) After a lot of talking and some counselling we have decided to try again and put it behind us.
It made me feel like ****, but i would never seek revenge.
2006-08-25 00:52:09 · answer #6 · answered by doodlepol 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the feeling would be bad -- for most of us. but it is not the end of the world...i would confront the culprit in a calm way...over lunch or supper -- outside (not at home) discuss (not argue) re. the incident..of why, why not etc. then I would take 24-48 hrs. to make a decision on where to go from there...voila..a short answer to a very long story.
2006-08-25 01:03:20 · answer #7 · answered by s t 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would feel hurt and betrayed if my husband cheated on me, but im not a vengeful person either.. but the trust that is so important would not be there and getting it back is harder than the first time you earn it. besides if your married your vows supposed to mean something aint they.
2006-08-25 01:39:54 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He did...I felt like a dog...after about 8 years and talking to many other people about their experiences with cheating partners, I realised...he was being a dog!!!
2006-08-25 08:04:26 · answer #9 · answered by divaA 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i will feel so bad if my man was cheating on me. but i thing i will do is to wait for a nice and happy moment with him and asked him why he was cheating on me and why? if it was a problem for me i will ask him how best we could solve it.
2006-08-25 01:00:47 · answer #10 · answered by del 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋