i asked if boys and girls can be friends if the boy thinks the girl is fit. How about if the boy admitted that he would do something with the girl if she made a move?
AND....
Said 'boys are only friends with girls who are good looking because they are back ups'
He is very wise....
But can you be friends with someone when they liked each other 5 years before?
2006-08-25 00:25:24 · 18 answers · asked by XPINKX 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
i used to have all boy mates but it seems they are slowly admitting to having an alternative motive? I used to think boys mates were like ur girl mates... was i wrong?
2006-08-25 00:26:36 · update #1
i dont see any of mates good looking....
boys i know yes... but me and Craig are good friends... its wierd to think like that. like finding my brother hot
2006-08-25 00:32:43 · update #2
one of my very dear friends is male. we have been very close for over 15 years now. Although i have always known he fancies me the feelings are not mutural and he knows this,therefor has never ever tried it on with me.
2006-08-25 00:29:29 · answer #1 · answered by doodlepol 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
For years I have tried to maintain friendships with males as well as females.
I have been disappointed on a couple of occasions to find I was friends with a guy only because he was awaiting the right time to suggest sex. Like I can't ask if I want it!
I know sometimes loving partnerships are formed this way and friendship is a great start but I always felt kind of cheated. Like friendship was not enough and I needed pursuading into bed.
I haven't given up and still have several male friends.
Watch this space...! LOL.
2006-08-25 07:34:50 · answer #2 · answered by Ice Queen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know when you think about it what bloke isnt going to fancy an attractive girl they know? Dont think too deeply about it, laugh it off and make it clear it will never happen! As long as they respect you and arent hitting on you every 5 mins then theres no harm, its flattering. I am good friends with a few males, who, have admitted they would go for it with me if i was up for it, we're still friends because i dont feel threatened by them, they are good fun and they respect that i am not interested. One of my friends is an ex and i think we will always have a special bond. Lap it up you sexy thing!!!!!!!!
2006-08-25 07:36:10 · answer #3 · answered by ducky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I admit to making friends with gals I like and wouldn't mind going further. But it's not the only reason for making friends, they also tend to be nice people worth knowing or it's not worth making friends if they are a a total bit*h but good looking.
Saying that I also have lady friends who are butt ugly, but it makes no difference. Some people are shallow enough that they do only make friends with the aim to get their leg over.
Are your male friends breaking friendship when they tell you? Or are you breaking the friendship? If either then it's not really ever been a friendship .
2006-08-25 07:32:47 · answer #4 · answered by earthangel_ghost 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I had more boy mates at school, simply because I found them to be less bitchy. As I got older I found i couldn't easily talk to them about Girly things, and so I began to make more girl friends.
I still do think that boys are less bitchy, but you need girl friends for chats.
But to answer your question, yes I do think that girls and boys can be just friends.
2006-08-25 07:30:07 · answer #5 · answered by ♥ Nicola ♥ 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think your mate might be titalating your fancy, i aint got no friends sister i don't pick em by there looks... what is that all about that aint friendly.
Not only that i would not call your friends wise, you sound a bit easy/desperate/needy/insecure/or you think your pretty.
2006-08-25 07:38:18 · answer #6 · answered by HOPE 4 THE FUTURE: 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Boys are weak and they always think they are in love when most of the time it's just lost or another of their strange feelings.
The besst person to answer this is a boy.
Not a gay one
2006-08-25 09:19:57 · answer #7 · answered by she 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its been said that a gentleman is just a patient wolf.. and I think age and maturity matter to the answer of your question.. but I have found - with tolerance - the answer is yes..
2006-08-25 07:33:33 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you can be freinds with someone after 5 yrs
a friend in need is a friend indeed
Regardless
hope this helps
:)
2006-08-25 07:39:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, this is a subjective answer. Humans heart and feelings are hard to predict. i would say ' i won't in love with him/she' one day, but times goes by who knows what will happen? Humans feelings are complicated. You won't have an exact answer for it!
2006-08-27 05:36:03 · answer #10 · answered by Alice Tan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋