should feel that maybe they arent a virgin after all or are they having an affair?
2006-08-24 23:49:10 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
i dont think there's anything suspicious, unless you want it to be...
maybe she was speaking aloud.. mayve she was scared about what was going to happen, since first time sex has soooo much stigma attached to it... maybe she just let you know that all was ok!
2006-08-24 23:53:33 · answer #1 · answered by conspicuous 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well, Not really sure what you are trying to say but if my reading between the lines is working today then, I would say that you are making a mountain out of a mole hill!
Translation, you are making problems where there are not any!
First of all, if you are newly married, as it appears you are, and your wife was a virgin, good for her, and you I am assuming just had sex for the first time, then number 1 why the hell are you on here?
Secondly, you think that comment means that she has been with someone else? Well you are the only one who would know that, as we were not there when you had sex and do not know the details.
Third, why do you question your wife at all? I mean you just got married and already, you are basically, saying you think she has been unfaithful? What kind of marriage do you want to have? If you are questioning her already, then maybe you should not have gotten married in the first place!
Why would that comment be such a big deal? What is wrong with her thinking that the 2 of you fit together perfectly? If you ask me that is a compliment!
I think you need to get your a@@ off the computer and be talking to your new bride and telling her how much you love her, I mean for God sakes why would this be important?
If I was your wife and we had sex for the first time and I knew you were already doubting me and on the computer telling the world about it instead of talking to me, I would be walking out the door!
You need to talk to your wife, not us! Good luck and God bless!
2006-08-25 07:11:16 · answer #2 · answered by iLoveDawnDawn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your spouse made that comment to you after sex? It means you two fit nicely together like a glove and hand. Virginity has nothing to do with the fit. Its a strange compliment. Go with it.
2006-08-25 07:08:21 · answer #3 · answered by Flagger 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your spouse had sex with whom?
Who was that virgin you mention here?
Where did he insert his tool and felt "it fits perfect like a glove"
For me 2 points are sufficient!!!
2006-08-25 07:02:19 · answer #4 · answered by SESHADRI K 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't worry about what she said. This doesn't indicate that she was indeed having an affair or lied about being a virgin. Don't sweat it us women always make comments that don;t really make sense.
2006-08-25 06:54:44 · answer #5 · answered by Beth 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Ignore it. It means nothing and your comment will just make your life a living hell for some time.
Unless you like to have someone pissed off at you.
2006-08-25 06:58:41 · answer #6 · answered by Mit 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like it was said quite sincerely. Take it as a compliment that go together perfectly
2006-08-25 06:55:15 · answer #7 · answered by claire_606 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should have used your own tool instead of glove. You took the advantage of dark ???
Ooopsss
2006-08-25 06:57:08 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
A comment is a comment. Don't look too much into it and don't go looking for trouble.
2006-08-25 06:55:02 · answer #9 · answered by T.G. 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
not necessarily.
Maybe he just thinks it feels that good.
Plus that is an old expression, he probably heard it from a friend and thought it fit.
2006-08-25 06:54:44 · answer #10 · answered by anabele6 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋