If you are married but you cant stand the man and you cant afford a divorce,in your opinion what is the chance that you can go on with your life and date someone else
2006-08-24 23:47:44 · 25 answers · asked by TAMMY M 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Change your hairstyle (for confidence); then find friends (of all genders!). Maybe you just need someone companionable and not necessarily for dates. If/when you're serious about dating again, please leave your marriage, OK? How would you feel if your spouse felt the way you do, if he posed this question? I think it would hurt. Besides, wouldn't you want to know if your husband has tired of you, too?
2006-08-24 23:53:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
open relationships need the consent of both parties. If a committed relationship is what you are seeking then I guess many would be put off by the fact that you still reside with excess baggage. Cant afford a divorce then separate at least gain your independence and happiness. Are you staying for financial security then in reality this is not fair to either of you.your husband has a right to be happy as well. check out your options with a woman's service and go from there
2006-08-25 06:55:07 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you could but there is such thing as a paupers divorce
It works like this: Go to your local library and they can show how and were to get all of the paperwork for a divorce, Your cost-the price to make copies which is normally about 5-20 cents a copy.
All you do then is go to the courthouse and file the paper work accordinglly and it about 1 month you'll be a free woman! There is
a small charge to file paper work, but it's not over 150.00 dollars.
2006-08-25 07:06:46 · answer #3 · answered by Ice Queen 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A lot of folks do it...whether they can afford a divorce or not. It creates an "unfinished business" situation that prevents you from ever being to do anything with someone that you might meet later. Save up your $250 and get a filing done...at some point
2006-08-25 07:01:28 · answer #4 · answered by westgaliberty 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Part of your issue is your attitude. Did someone make you marry this guy? It does not say much for your taste. If you cannot afford a divorce it looks like you should work on marriage. Or you can go be a lying, cheating whore. Your choice. If he is the scumbag you think he is, usually the later option will get you a beating when discovered.
2006-08-25 07:15:25 · answer #5 · answered by Flagger 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Listen if you want a divorce get one. Don't say you can not afford it. No one can afford a divorce. Saying maybe you should date someone else is just plain stupid.
Either work out your marriage or get a divorce and stop trying to make another wrong make everything right.
2006-08-25 07:02:13 · answer #6 · answered by Mit 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Your chances are good. But if you both want a divorce then it won't cost that much money just go to a lawyer together have everything worked out and you will be divorce sooner and cheaper than you think. My ex husband and I did it and it only cost 600 but we split the cost so it only ended up costing me 300.00. But back to your original question I know lots of people who are separated and dating other people.
2006-08-25 06:56:54 · answer #7 · answered by speparm 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am in a similar situation. Make sure that u divorce him or at the very least separate first. Dating now would be considered adultery which only complicates the divorce process.
2006-08-25 07:13:25 · answer #8 · answered by confused123 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a mistake cannot be corrected bu another mistake...
before you think of going out on a date with someone else, try to patch things up between you and your husband first.. if things don't really go well then think about what to do in order to afford a divorce..
do go things for you to get good things..
2006-08-25 06:54:41 · answer #9 · answered by enigmaticenegue 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
There are plenty of men that will go out with u married or not. And allot that will not. There are other ways of getting a divorce. Speak to a atty.
2006-08-25 06:54:34 · answer #10 · answered by Sarcastic Sid 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋