i'm a 19yr old...from a well off family...i'm pretty good looking and have lots of friends too...the problem is that i love someone who cant be a part of my life now...its been 5yrs since i fell in love with him and i cant get him out of my mind..he liked me but due 2 certain circumstances we cant be together...i havent even seen or spoken to him since a yr ...i have no other reason 2 be unhappy but i cant get him out of my mind...what should i do?
2006-08-24 23:47:06 · 10 answers · asked by goddess_5611 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Chances are he will always be a part of your mind,I've been there,but when you know that it is not possible then it is time to go on,right now you are not giving your heart a chance to heal,you are holding it back by no going on with your life,it is time to get out there,date a few guys,meet some new people and before you know it the right one will come along,this one wasnt meant to be or it would be,good luck
2006-08-25 00:20:09 · answer #1 · answered by TAMMY M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have no idea what the facts that you think you are good looking, have lots of friends and are well off has anythign to do with your question.
Why couldn't you be with this person? It might help you get better answers.
The truth of the situation is, you are so young.
There are so many great guys out there, you don't need this guy, and since you haven't spoken in a year, I'd say you don't love him, but you like the idea of him.
Sometimes people get pictures of what people are like in their heads, only to find out that that person isn't who they thought they were.
If you really can't move on with life, then contact him and tell him, you will probably learn he is not the person you thought he was or wanted, but if I were you, I'd just move on, no matter how hard it is, and find a guy who you can be with and who wants to be with you.
2006-08-25 06:53:34 · answer #2 · answered by anabele6 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
GOD has a plan for everybody. Read the Bible. I believe, whatever your religion, the Bible, Kur'an, or whatever you may call it, has the answers to loneliness. You are so young, and opportunities for you is unlimited. If you are for him and he for you, time will come and time will tell. As for now, I'd say, busy yourself. There are lots of things for you to enjoy without being crooked. Go straight, ask for God's guidance and blessings. May God bless you always and keep you from being lonely.
2006-08-25 07:01:26 · answer #3 · answered by bollengs 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you try doing something to occupy your mind??? It will help!!! Volunteer somewhere. Time is your best healer, sorry to say. Good Luck.
2006-08-25 07:51:44 · answer #4 · answered by winona e 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Write down what you are feeling or what you wish you could say to him then destroy it. It will help you get if off your mind.
2006-08-25 06:58:38 · answer #5 · answered by philly_q_t_2004 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find someone new, you may NEVER get him out of your mind, but if you can not be together it's time to move on
2006-08-25 06:56:57 · answer #6 · answered by start 6-22-06 summer time Mom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop feeling sorry for yourself and get a life. It didnt happen then, it sure wont happen now
2006-08-25 06:55:57 · answer #7 · answered by Ravishing Rue 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u are 19 yrs old just concentrate on ur studies and u just talk to him as friend
2006-08-25 06:59:01 · answer #8 · answered by munmun 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on. men are a dime a dozen, trust me, i'm older. you "think" this one rocked your world, you'll find out later, once you find yourself in this world, that he was nothing compared to waht you marry
2006-08-25 06:54:54 · answer #9 · answered by Karen Elaine 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
welcome to our group
the heart brokens ;-(
2006-08-25 06:49:52 · answer #10 · answered by jay Z 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋