You should never tell a woman the truth when they ask"Does my bum look big in this?"
2006-08-24 22:51:59 · 45 answers · asked by Monkeyphil 4 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
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2006-08-24 22:53:46 · answer #1 · answered by LW 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
: ) True. But then there should be a level of honesty. If it really looks like there is copious amounts of fleshed stuffed into a pocket sized piece of material, rather say something like; "that style of jeans isn't as flattering as your other pair." Or sheesh, "the cut of jeans adds pounds onto your lovely ***." Make sure your standing a few feet away when giving comments that could result in a whack over the head.
2006-08-24 22:58:22 · answer #2 · answered by Shine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
But what if her bum doesn't look big in it, saying no would be the truth!!!
Never mind the truth just say NO!!
2006-08-24 22:55:06 · answer #3 · answered by cheryl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
False, however you need to agree with her what is exactly 'too big'. The body must be more or less proportionate. Even if it is too big, it is not the end of the world as luckily there exist a number of excercises to reduce dimensions of any body part.
And besides who needs a lying hound for a friend?
2006-08-28 14:46:01 · answer #4 · answered by flugelberry 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
False - I feel really let down if you let me go out looking like the last in line in the elephants parade.
I'm lucky, my partner and I are able to be honest with each other about what suits.
If you're with someone that you need to lie to all the time, it's a bit of a sorry affair.
2006-08-24 23:04:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When your girlfriend asks questions like "am i getting fat" or says in a statement "i'm getting fat" she wants reassurance that you still fancy her and that she's still attractive because something has obviously happened to make her feel she's worthless. It's that simple. Why don't men get this?
I'll make it easy for you. Yes you think she's attractive, no her bum does not look fat.
2006-08-25 01:31:46 · answer #6 · answered by mother knowledge 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely true!!!
We are only fishing for a compliment, which you should have given without being asked!!
If we wanted the truth we would ask another woman.
We do NOT point out our flaws to our MAN!!
Only the Sexy spots!! : )
2006-08-24 22:59:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
absolutely true, but i want u guys 2 make a stand 4 common sense.
i think the truth sometimes hurts but there is no point in lying.
b honest, obesity is out-of-control.
1-in 4 kids r obese and 1-in3 adults.
If U can't/don't tell these BBW they're fat, who's gonna tell them?
2006-08-24 22:58:46 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
False.
She either has a big bum or not - clothing won't change the fact.
Tell it like it is.
2006-08-25 02:44:13 · answer #9 · answered by Basil P 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not answer that kind of provocative questions. It's like picking a fight if you do, no matter what you answer. Just distract and tell how much you love her etc. This requires some skill though.
2006-08-24 23:29:17 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
True. DO NOT say anything that's on your mind! If you think her *** looks like the Staypuft Marshmallow Man's.....if she asks you, just smile and say "of course not dear".
2006-08-24 22:54:24 · answer #11 · answered by CroatianSensation 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋