2006-08-24 22:51:09 · 38 answers · asked by khim 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
get a F*** Buddy
2006-08-24 23:08:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anarchy99 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
1. If he's busy with his friends all the time, he prefers their company to yours. Accompany him. Insist.
2. If he does not want you to share activities with his friends, ask why, and find out where he's going. Call him there. Follow him. He may be somewhere else — not with his friends. You need to know.
3. A man has friends, but a man has a home and wife that should come first. If he's not having an affair, then put some limits down on his time with friends.
4. You married him to be with him, not be his personal housekeeper who cleans, cooks, washes the clothes, and lets him go play with his friends after work, while you sit alone.
5. Definitely get this settled. You're unhappy, and that won't do. He needs to know how this is making you feel. Cry.
Good luck and warm regards.
2006-08-31 23:13:21 · answer #2 · answered by mitch 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The number # best thing is to start not being there when he needs you -- stop the sex, and the cooking and the cleaning. Go out and have some fun and when he starts noticing you gone all the time, tell him that is the way you feel when he leaves you and see what he does about it.
2006-09-01 16:32:23 · answer #3 · answered by mama 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off I would make sure that I had friends of my own. It is not good to shelter yourself from the world even being married. Next, I would most definelty tell him how I felt. Maybe he dont even realize how this is effecting you. Botttom line is you never know till you try talking to him how he will react. It could save your marriage.
2006-09-01 10:56:13 · answer #4 · answered by iamahotty36 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask yourself the question is he busy with his friends or is he cheating and they are covering? Some guys just like being with their friends and they are honestly with their friends. If a guy is constantly horny and he says he's with his friends, then he's probably working on getting a little side action (hopefully not with the male friends).
2006-08-31 03:43:22 · answer #5 · answered by John E 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
get busy with ur friends and life all the time. that way you won't even notice he is always busy with his friends and he will stat noticing that u are not there waiting for him. he will be the one wondering what to do when ur wife is busy with her friends all the time... have fun doing it, don't do it just to get him wondering. have all the fun you can being with your friends
2006-08-24 22:56:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
distract him. b4 he goes out. sometime when he can ditch his buddys. ie no big game, not on dollar beer night. b4 he leaves put on something ... lets just say a little more comfortable and give him a look that says "I'll miss you tonight and you will miss out on the best night of sex of your life". if he stays home you have to deliver. if he still goes out u can call me
Ill be waiting.
2006-09-01 22:50:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must be the nagging type. Give him some space. Maybe you need to put-out more. Most men only want women around for sex anyhow.
2006-09-01 02:47:30 · answer #8 · answered by New Rider of the purple sage 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go out with your friends or do things you used to do when ya weren't together
2006-09-01 13:31:24 · answer #9 · answered by marrissa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep your self busy, so he knows how it feels when he is gone all the time, also honey it doesn't sound right if he is out with his boys more than you, he might have another chick.
2006-09-01 22:21:09 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
make yourself go do something even if it is sitting in the park and reading a book. don't be home when he gets home come home say one hour after he does do not disclose where you were. let him wonder. good luck
2006-08-24 23:35:06 · answer #11 · answered by kelsey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋