some men dont have any idea whats its like to be a dad or grandad, because they wont raise the kids they helped make.i think their sorryas''s loser's, what do u really think?
2006-08-24 22:36:26 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
yeah, level 6 and a proud parent
2006-08-24 22:43:02 · update #1
nancy h is right on
2006-08-24 22:43:55 · update #2
It goes beyond losers, they are part of the devaluation of the youth today, back in the days of shotgun weddings there were far less unwed and teenage pregnancy, not to mention no Columbine type incidents.
2006-08-24 22:42:49 · answer #1 · answered by Nancy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep.
I was married to one of those myself. When I got pregnant with my third, he split.
Then, what do ya know - the kids are all grown up now, and he's back in their lives.
Kids still want to know their biological parents - that's just the way it is. They all have a relationship with him now, but it's different than it is with me. They all 3 tell me though, that they have no respect for him cutting out like he did.
They have absolute respect for me - that I stayed and we worked together to get through life together. They learned to do laundry at an early age. They learned responsibility. They learned relationship - I only worked where I could take them with me - mostly at my church and their schools. They ALWAYS knew that besides God, they were the most important things in my life.
The results? I released 3 responsible people into society. They all are hard workers. Their employers rave about their job ethics. I'm very proud of each one.
2006-08-24 22:43:08 · answer #2 · answered by tangerine19 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not all men are born loser! It all depend on them whether they like kids anot....if they dun then might as well marry n no kid...cant b selfish...wife looking aft herslf ya? Well if they like kids...they will naturally become a dad wen the baby is born jus like women la..
2006-08-24 22:44:31 · answer #3 · answered by D@ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's a saying "Anyone can make a child , it's 1 very simple process; but it takes a real man to father a chid". they are not losers but they do not deserve to be called men either, so i think they ought to be called "sperm donors" period.
2006-08-24 22:47:10 · answer #4 · answered by Nthape 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is the wrong way of thinking .U Will get to know the feeling when u become a father not now.grow UP!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-08-24 22:45:26 · answer #5 · answered by priyaedesh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't agree wid dis coz wen d baby is born den d father feels d same happiness as d mother feels,infact he is more excited bout d baby cuming den d mother or anyone else.
2006-08-24 22:47:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
theres alot of losers in the world
2006-08-26 07:07:52 · answer #7 · answered by cliona 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i never knew that kind of guy existed..guys should be responsible for their own actions, coz that's what make them a man in the first place..
2006-08-24 22:54:01 · answer #8 · answered by nini moreal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if they refuse to even try to be a father, then your right. fathering should come naturally, just like mothering.
2006-08-24 22:40:14 · answer #9 · answered by red 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well ... not all men are the same because I believe there are some great guys around too. ;)
2006-08-24 22:40:41 · answer #10 · answered by j t 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋