Or is it that they're straight but gay? Or what are they when they do that...?
2006-08-24 22:34:02 · 26 answers · asked by casual observer 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Your question is convuluted but I will give it a try. Yes a person can have 'gay' feelings and not act on them and so be considered 'straigt.' Still most Evangelicals will hate you for having impure thoughts. And yes there are 'straight' people who do 'gay' sex either for money or other harder to define reasons, yet these people do not embrace gay culture and would be upset if you called them queer. 'Gay' truly is a lifestyle choice more than it is a matter of sexuality. Actually many old fat gay men are no longer sexually active, except their hands etc, so that totally throws sex out of the equation.
2006-08-24 22:51:16 · answer #1 · answered by JVHawai'i 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I understand your question, you want to know if a gay man can have sex with a woman. The answer is yes, but that is not what makes a person gay or str8. Sexual identity and attraction are not rigidly defined. A gay man can be sexually active with a woman but cannot necessarily be in love with her. Being Gay or Str8 is based on Emotional, physical and spiritual attraction. It's an ephemeral quality which defines each of us in our own way, we ultimately don't know why, it just is.
2006-08-25 11:14:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
People are born being gay or straight. Anyone can choose to have sex with the same sex or the opposite sex or both sex's. The bi thing does double your chances of getting some. But sexual orientation is different than who a person chooses to have sex. When younger, in order to confirm to society, I chose to have sex with females because that is what society said was right. I had sex with guys because it felt better and was more natural to me. As I learned more and figured out that I need to be happy with myself before I can make someone else happy, it was a rather easy decision to not care if society was happy with me. So I guess the answer to your question is yes and no. If they are naturally oriented to both sexes, they are bisexual. Personally, i don't think anyone gravitates towards both. But anyone is capable of having sex with either sex. These folks that keep saying that people choose to be gay are ignorant. A person can choose who they have sex with, even I will concede that, but you can not choose what feels right down in your core.
2006-08-25 06:07:34 · answer #3 · answered by xnucmm1ss 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think so. i have a friend who has a relationship with a woman, including sex, and she is also about to give birth to his child, and this person is shows the attributes of being gay. although gay is a relative term to the word HOMOSEXUAL. if one shows high spirits and a jovial look on life then gay would best describe how u live ur life. Gay is not a term for ur sexuality. it is the term for how u choose to show ur expression on life. yes my friend enjoys the relationship and sexual intimacy with a women. although i feel that he may be HOMOSEXUAL and not just because he acts high spirited and always shows a jovial attitude towards life. BE YOURSELF! it is bad enough that this planet is as screwed up as it is but the one thing that cannot be taken from u is YOUR INDIVIDUALITY! we humans cannot begin to imagine what other life forms in our vast universe feel about GAY, STRAIGHT, BI, HOMOSEXUAL, or how they amongst their species PROCREATE or whether there is a male, female gender. they may not have to deal with sexuality at all.
2006-08-25 07:06:41 · answer #4 · answered by zenwiz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bio Sexuals are, for example man. He acts naturally straight, the difference is, they are loving the same sex. IIts difference to homosexuals or gays are gays act like a feminine and do likes same sex. vgez dis is d best answer...
2006-08-25 08:47:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if a person is gay and acted straight it means he's still in the closet and for whatever reason is not readily admit or accept or in denial of his sexuality.
2006-08-25 10:28:21 · answer #6 · answered by sstooc2001 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that i am going through the same thing but you can't be both straight and guy but you may be bisexual. Try it out am sure you'll like it or it's just a faze.
2006-08-25 11:47:13 · answer #7 · answered by sour_apple809 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow! Either the gay is ACTING straight; or, the straight is ACTING gay; or, the dude is bisexual and his attractions shift according to his environment, mood, chemistry, etc.
2006-08-25 07:53:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's what you call a BISEXUAL! Wow...can a person be gay but straight...you made my night, guy.
2006-08-25 05:52:53 · answer #9 · answered by Redeemer 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they can be straight up gay
2006-08-25 05:38:47 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋