IM FAT and noboDY LIKEs ME?

Question

i dont know what to do!

Answer 1

We're the same. Lose some weight. lol

Answer 2

Im gonna be honest with you...do something about it! Either go get a new wardrobe with some nice clothes or try a diet and exercise at the same time to lose the weight trust me you will feel so much better and have more confidence in yourself......good luck x

Answer 3

Being fat is not the reason ppl dont like you. Doesnt your family love u for who ur?If u r over weight, try to lose some weight as its a healthy option & maybe u will regain your confidence.

Answer 4

Hi tod!! :o) The less we like ourselves - the less likely it is that others will like US. When we don't like ourselves - we are letting the world know that WE are unlikable. That might seem like an odd thing to say - but when we meet someone for the first time - we 'sense' things about them. If a person is confident - WE feel confident just being with them. If a person is easy going - WE feel more relaxed in their presence. But if a person doesn't like themselves [and criticizes or belittles themselves - as they often do] then WE will want to avoid them - because they make US feel 'down' and 'depressed'. So not being liked has more to do with how much YOU like yourself then it has to do with your physical size. BUT... it's easier to blame the fat - isn't it?! [I know - believe me - I've struggled with fat all my life] It's tough though. Eating can quickly turn into a vicious cycle that seems to go on forever. I'm depressed about my weight - so I eat. When I eat - I gain weight. When I gain weight I feel even more depressed. So what do I do?! I eat. [and on it goes] Then I feel sorry for myself because nobody likes me - so I eat some more!! You are going to have to do your best to acknowledge that food is not a source of comfort - but a source of energy. When a person overeats - it's like putting 20 gallons of gas into a 10 gallon tank. But unlike that 10 gallon tank - our bodies STORE much of the excess energy. This stored energy is fat. For now - forget about whether or not other people like you. Focus on becoming someone YOU like. If you had a best friend - someone that you loved and cared about - would you force food into him that his body didn't need? Probably not. And why? Because you care about him and don't want to hurt him. Well - I'd like you to think of yourself as your best friend - and start treating 'HIM' with more kindness, compassion and respect. [And that includes caring about what YOU eat!!] It won't be easy - especially at first. But start off by taking 'baby steps' towards a healthier and happier you. And before you know it - you'll become someone people will like and want to hang out with. [Because YOU like yourself] Craig!! :o)

Answer 5

If you don't like yourself,nobody going to like you .have a self confident try your best to be in good shape and act happily.and don't forget that women are not only body honey.I believe that nobody like you if you have a bad character not a fat body.

Answer 6

I could also be that you have a lousy personalityl. Did you ever think about that?
I know lots of fat people and they have friends because they're great to be around. Don't blame your fat.

Answer 7

You don't get disliked because you are fat. You must be doing something else wrong. Ask your family what it is that turn people off on you.

Answer 8

you can use that negativity as energy to fuel some real gut busting workouts. Go for it or stop complaining.

Answer 9

Well imagine being your perfect weight and that it's easy to get there.

Answer 10

that's not true..
start burning your fats..
i started burning mine!
good luck to the both of us!
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