if I lie and pretend its cool everyones happy and i human?
2006-08-24 21:34:19 · 14 answers · asked by thought 4 in Computers & Internet ➔ Internet
Win i speak my mind people throw things!
2006-08-24 21:40:09 · update #1
You should ALWAYS be yourself, because perhaps you aren't the one with a problem, but it is everyone else that "needs to change"? Don't ever compromise who you are! You'll eventually meet cool people you can get along with!
2006-08-24 21:41:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First I'd like to say you are a bright personality and I'm sure it is very interesting to be near you.
In that question of yours two thirds are apparent: one - you are deep and ask yourself questions most people don't think even exist, and second - you are sensitive and care (probably far too much) of what people think about you.
Being yourself is at the same time the hardest and the easiest way to live the life.
Being yourself you oppose others will thus showing you are strong - most people are weak and the weak always hate the strong. But while listening to yourself you don't have to lie and save that inner integrity you have.
Such people are worth admiration.
And by the way, there are people who value such features of character, equally strong and deep. I'm sure you'll find someone like that.
:)
2006-08-25 05:42:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear Bish,
I think you should get this clear. You'll ruin your life if you aren't yourself. If you be true to yourself you'll be Happy, always.
Yes, if you think what you say at sometime could offend someone, be tactful in avoiding. But, never say something you don't want to.
Follow your Heart. And you'll be happy ever after, Bish.
Best Wishes,
indianyogi
2006-08-25 04:44:06 · answer #3 · answered by Indianyogi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why should you change to please other people? I felt exactly the same for a while but realised that being who you are is all that matters. If people judge you then they aren't happy with themselves because they see in you what they don't like about themselves. I'm sure there are alot more people than you realise that love who you are irrespective of how others see you('',)
2006-08-25 04:43:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You only assume that the other people are offended; in fact you are the one who is offended.
Why are you offended just because somebody else is "being themself" by throwing things?
A person can't offend somebody else. A person can only let himself be offended.
2006-08-25 04:44:08 · answer #5 · answered by 4999_Basque 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've got to work on your style and presentation. Modify what others don't seem to like about you with what you have learned that they do like about you. Make that adjustment , then accept the altercation as part of your new package. We all need a survival package to fall back on, it will be to your liking!
2006-08-25 04:46:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you don't always have to tell people what's on ur mind and that is not a lie but pretending someone else is
2006-08-25 04:40:31 · answer #7 · answered by Mag 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
People like to hear lies.
If you are not comfortable with it, look for friends of your same character.
I've learn to be a hypocrite when I step into the society. It is a skill to protect yourself from unnecessary trouble.
Try to look things at the bright side.
2006-08-25 04:40:46 · answer #8 · answered by Asia 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Keep the best part(being yourself) for yourself & leave the bad part(pretending) to others.
2006-08-25 04:41:13 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
b/c they are being themselves by getting pissed. If your true self is mad all the time, find what makes you happy. You can be yourself and still grow and mature as a person. unless being yourself means giving up.
2006-08-25 04:38:35 · answer #10 · answered by matthew c 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋