my friend and his ex have been broken up for 1 year and 3 months...she really likes me...should i go ahead and date her...because she is pressuring me to fu*k her and eat her out..and all kinds of things and she wants to go out with me....but then again i think about my friend and i dont know what to do
2006-08-24 21:29:13 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Firstly you have to ask him if he still feels for her. Then you have to let him know about this issue. Ask him if he minds if you date her?
It's better if you don't date her without him knowing this, cause you may lose you friend. What if he still loves her? He will get hurt.
Think well about it before you decide to do smth.
2006-08-24 23:00:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
come on think about it ? would you want your friend to do this to you? not if you care anything about the friendship!!! as alot of people come in and out of lives but friends are usually the more stable of our relationships!! She is kinda skuzzy for even trying to get you to mess with your friendship and the f**k will probably not be all that wonderful.
2006-08-25 04:37:53 · answer #2 · answered by kjhennekes 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No! Coz it will surely come back on you for sure, and think of this; could you handle it if it were done until you? If so, then think how you could handle it when you found out. and if not think what you would do when you found that your friend took your ex. that should answer your question really fast!
Gayle
2006-08-25 04:39:25 · answer #3 · answered by gayle j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As you said the "f*k", it means she's out to seduce you, but friendship and dignity is hard to find and is rare. As a common saying goes on, true friendship is hard to find wheras seduction is just a desire. Dignity is also called "lian" in chinese. You must never forget about true friendship instead of her seduction!
2006-08-25 04:38:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask your friend if he'd mind if you went out with her, or, think about how you would feel if it were your ex & your best friend...would it be OK? If so, then go for it...if not, well, I guess we both know what to do then!
2006-08-25 04:35:16 · answer #5 · answered by kibbie01 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If i were u --- NO! She sound to me worst than a "hooker".... cos she do it for free!
Think of yr friend la...if it yr ex-gf, do u feel good tat she is offering yr friend for free fuxk? U looking for a "serious" GF or jus for "fun"?
2006-08-25 04:45:00 · answer #6 · answered by D@ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go and see what she wants. If she is ready to do anything then you must go for it. Anyway if she want sex with you then she is not good for your friend. So indirectly you are saving your friend from her which is good.
2006-08-25 04:45:13 · answer #7 · answered by yogesh 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you have the same feelings for her,why not?morever,they have break up for more than a year and it is not an excuse.go ahead if you like her too...
2006-08-25 04:35:03 · answer #8 · answered by j@NicE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep thinking about your friend
dont lose respect
you need his friendship more than hers
get right away from her
2006-08-25 04:33:00 · answer #9 · answered by domazina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must decide which you value more: your friendship or a sexual encounter.
2006-08-25 04:34:29 · answer #10 · answered by john a 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋