I am an indian. i love a guy who s also indian.
we belong to different castes.
his parents are a bit traditionalist. they are not allowing us to get married. though my parents know and have no problems with our marriage.
he is well settled and earning very well.
his parents re hurt and they re not accepting our relation.
he cant go against their will, he cant even think of leaving me.
he has tried his best to explain things to his parents. its 3 days now since he spoke to them about this. but they re stubborn.
we both are stuck..what should he do???
2006-08-24 21:27:39 · 5 answers · asked by Me 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
the problem is his parents are saying tht either chose us or the girl.
what is he supposed to do??
its like he's asked either choose your left eye or right eye. which one
2006-08-24 21:29:12 · update #1
as a indian i know how it feels. Bet remember, if you both are together then no one can apart you. Only you two should have courage to face the world and any circumstances that may occer. I personally had this situation but now it fine.
2006-08-24 21:33:25 · answer #1 · answered by yogesh 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You haven't mentioned what your approximate ages are or how long you have known each other. This makes it difficult to render an answer.
If your relationship is real love, and you are sure of this, and you have known each other long enough my answer would be to talk to his parents as to why they don't want you to be married. Maybe it is something else other than your caste system. Have his parents told you this personally or has the object of your affection told you what his parents say? I would suggest you both talk to his parents and ask for their blessing. If they don't give it, then if you love each other, get married.
2006-08-25 04:48:40 · answer #2 · answered by modulion 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the best suggestion i have is ask them why they don't want there son to be happy if they love him enough they will let him marry you i understand that he stuck he loves his parents but also loves you and it a matter of time they will soon see how much you are in love with each other i wish you all the best and good luck
2006-08-25 04:30:53 · answer #3 · answered by Fuzzywuzzygal 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's hard to believe that his parents are so self centered that their happiness and needs are more important than their son's happiness. Shame on them. They should let him follow his heart.
2006-08-25 04:44:03 · answer #4 · answered by Tony 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
is he well earning by himself, if yes then ditch the parents. this is an example of why american system is better. where the castes system is just ridiculous.
2006-08-25 04:33:05 · answer #5 · answered by supraman126 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋