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i am very upset from the last two days.inspite of having everything job, good family i seem to have nothing..
and i am fed up with my life. from my childhood there was some or other problem associated with me. i can't keep my parents happy. i will again post part 2 of this message after some time if i don't get an answer...

2006-08-24 21:19:13 · 17 answers · asked by planetearth 1 in Family & Relationships Other - Family & Relationships

17 answers

I know how you are feeling, but remember, if you suicide, then you give up hope of a good future someday. It may seem hopeless now but as long as you are breathing, some good could come to you. Maybe someone special is waiting to meet you. Maybe you will do some great thing someday, who knows?
Please don't give up. Find friends who will listen to you gripe about your parents and life. Hang in there!
Hugs,
Umichan

2006-08-24 21:29:04 · answer #1 · answered by felisuncia 3 · 0 0

suicide is the easy way out the hard thing is to face the truth and try to work tings out i have been there i have tried suicide and was put in a hospital but i have grow up and realize that there is nothing in this world that is so bad that u have to kill your self someone has a harder live maybe no food no home so do not do anything live your life one day at a time some one once told bad things always lead to something good

2006-08-24 21:49:47 · answer #2 · answered by janet 2 · 0 0

Tell your mom you need to see a counselor. It sounds like you could use someone to talk to. I am sure your parents love you very much. When I was a teenager I felt like you did once.; but things got better. Do you have a friend at school? Maybe you can talk to one of your friends? Go make yourself a cup of hot chocolate or some chocolate pudding. This will make you feel better. I really hope you get better. Tomorrow is another day and just remember that things can change so very quickly! Sometimes we don't understand our parents and we think they don't love us.; but they just don't want us to make some of the same mistakes that they did.

2006-08-24 21:41:33 · answer #3 · answered by Busy Lady 2010 7 · 0 0

You will be fine. You are a good person and God has a plan for your life... Don't worry about making them happy, do a good job and make yourself happy. Remember- parents are just humans too and not perfect. I'm not sure how old you are but in a year or two you will be on your own and in control of your life completely!

2006-08-24 21:26:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

It seems you are depressed. Have a beer and take a nap. That will help. When you wake up, you'll be happier. You're not the only one who's not able to make his parents happy. But our parents belong to other generation, so we can not please them in everything cause there will always be something that they don't like in what we do. Only thing we can do is keep the family environment cool, be polite, but do what you feel is making you happy, cause any of us has one life only.

2006-08-24 21:27:09 · answer #5 · answered by DreamGirl 4 · 0 0

Im sorry u feel death is the only way out, but why are u fed up? Its hard to direct u towards help b'coz u didn mention much about ure childhood problem.

But have u tried talking with ure parents about this issue? Why do u feel responible for making them happy? shouldn they do that themselves? Think about it, suicide will only break God's heart, he loves u alot.

I didn exactly answer ure question but mince on what I av written... stay well.

2006-08-24 21:33:10 · answer #6 · answered by Luvy 3 · 0 0

You can inspire ur parent by LOVE keep them loving and obey them. Parent can't become enemy but the children think so. If you have not good child hood than you should have good yougth.

If you want suicide than you want to fire on parents b,coz you are doing what is harmfull for parents. Result is that Suicide is not the solution of any thing and please try to obey parents in bad days than good days will come soon.


I pray for you.

2006-08-24 21:38:33 · answer #7 · answered by truth speaker 2 · 0 0

Come on, don't be so dishearted. Just relax, sit back and think twice that what is wrong. Rather I will suggest that you should go to sleep and give a gap. tomorrow again visualize the situation and I hope you will find some good solution of this problem.
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2006-08-24 21:31:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

I am sorry that you are unhappy! Parental approval is important for all kids and if you feel that you are unable to resolve issues with parents I recommend the entire family seek professional help. Contact Family Guidance Councellors in your area.
It helps!! They are trained to bring out and help you deal with underlying issues-I pray you will overcome and conquer your suicidal impulse!!

2006-08-24 21:48:59 · answer #9 · answered by zing 1 · 0 0

dont try to make anybody happy but yourself. You are the only one that should matter to you. Take some time to find yourself and find where you fit . Its not always a happy trail, but we all live it. Dont worry about what your parents think, they do not live your life, you do! All will fall into place, just give it time.

2006-08-24 21:28:45 · answer #10 · answered by meg 2 · 0 0

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