Hey guys. I work at a place where I have to provide great customer service.As a result I get hit on alot by many men. But I am happily in a relationship and if I behave shy in front of a man he automatically thinks that I am stuck up. How I can deal with men and be nice to them without giving them the impression that I want them to hit on me? How can I get them to stop hitting on me? Even when with my boyfriend, I have men who try to hit on me and it is rather annoying, especially because my boyfriend is very jealous and will pick a fight with everyone. I mean I dont dress like a slut or anything like that. I am a regular person. What should I do?
2006-08-24 21:18:03 · 6 answers · asked by gm 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Even when away from work and with my boyfriend, lets say at the movies, men try to talk to me and he gets really upset which upsets me, but it is not my fault
2006-08-24 21:22:26 · update #1
I do makeup at a department store
2006-08-24 21:39:16 · update #2
be a confident and cold women. most men don't like confident women. men like to control and to have power. that's why by being confident and cold, men cant control and show them their power to you...thus they'll run away...
and being confident will do no harm to your profesionalism...
hope this advice can help you
2006-08-24 21:30:03 · answer #1 · answered by the_justin 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to quit working at the strip club. I would like to know
what kind of job you really have. Your b/f should be happy that
he has a woman that other men wants.
2006-08-24 21:28:23 · answer #2 · answered by mrshowtime 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just act cool if you are being hitted by men. Hey, you same as me! I'm being hitted by my classmates too! So, you just act cool! I always do that.
2006-08-24 21:25:48 · answer #3 · answered by Tony 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't be nice be professional and you will stop get hit from men
2006-08-24 21:31:17 · answer #4 · answered by Danny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wear a big wedding ring
2006-08-24 21:51:15 · answer #5 · answered by bobby h 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him not to come between your career
2006-08-24 21:21:09 · answer #6 · answered by yogesh 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋