How do I get this girl to like me? Also, how do I flirt around with her? Finally, how should I act around this girl that I like? Last crush, I got too nervous and ignored her and I definately know that that is not the way to go. So please help me!
2006-08-24 20:55:55 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
have Faith in yourself, take a look at yourself in the mirror find three things that are great about you. then believe them.then go for it nerves will always be there ,but look what happened last time.you will miss out on all the girls you like all your life and that is a waste of life..dude you could be dead tomorrow so live it..plez just live it.flirting is in your heart and soul, it will come naturally to you as you feel more comfortable.if som,eon was to tell you how to flirt you will more than likely come off looking g like a dingbat, so be true to yourself and go with the flow, it will come back to you.good luck
2006-08-24 21:00:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just calm down. This girl is human to you know. You can flirt around with her by saying "You look nice today " or " Whats that lovely smell is it you". Don't ignore her but you can play hard to get as well. Pls don't trie to be a show of girls don't like that! Just be yourself. Then you would know that if she likes you back she really likes you for you and not the person you are tried to be.
Good luck!!
2006-08-24 23:43:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound like a nice guy . . . so, just be yourself. Talk to her and find out what you have in common (music, books, movies, whatever). Become friends first, then let the relationship progress naturally. You'll feel less nervous when you're around her and you certainly won't ignore her because she'll be your friend. Good luck!
2006-08-24 21:14:19 · answer #3 · answered by Kat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. Does she know you're alive?
if she doesnt, make sure she DOES! and show her some signs tht you like her like smiling whenever you see her, or eye contact..
2. Ask her about her favorite bands, what she likes to do, and if she likes the funny type, which most girls like me do, tell her jokes tht'll make her laugh! I love guys tht can make me laugh! to me, the definition of flirting is just talking to someone you like.. lol idk
3. ACT NORMAL!!! if you get all nervous and wierd, ppl dont feel comfortable! and dont ask if shes "ok" every 5 seconds because tht just makes it look like YOU are insecure about something.. you just have to be confident and thts all you'll need!
4. if you dont think you can make it through a date without completely falling apart, make it a group date!!! those gaurantee fun, and friends tht will help you during the date...
5. GOOD LUCK!!!! and i hope you get the GF of your dreams!
2006-08-24 21:08:52 · answer #4 · answered by Maddie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know the girl or her likes/dislikes. But for me, when a guy seems shy and looks my way and maybe says "hi" to me in a shy way and likes to hang around me, I get the impression he likes me. If she likes music, talk to her about music. Same with movies, sports or video games. Try to find out what she likes. If she has a favorite music, you could give her a CD. If she is ionto manga, get her latest magazine or such. You could offer to go to a movie with her.You seem sweet. This is good. I know sweet guys are much better than macho guys who act so superior.
Best of luck with her. I hope she likes you too!
2006-08-24 21:01:50 · answer #5 · answered by felisuncia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, here is the sure-fire way to handle this type of situation.
From this day forward forget sex, intimacy and love in connection with her. Erase it from your mind. When you slip up erase it again.
From this day forward she is a new aquaintance and you are building a friendship--just like with a dude. Treat every meeting just like that.
Be her friend. Be her friend. Be her friend.
Then one day she is going to have this realization that she can have the best of both worlds freindship and sex. You winner you.
Later the whole thing is going to hell, but don't think about that right now.
Just be her friend. No sex thoughts at all.
This works everytime. So, please make sure you want it. It is based on the mechanics of energy flows, dispersals, and ridges.
Thank me later.
2006-08-24 21:03:18 · answer #6 · answered by Simple green is people! 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The only thing that will make a girl not notice you is to not let her know that you like her. Flirt with her just as you would flirt with anyone else but don't be annoying. You shouldn't act like anything either cuz girls hate acts. If she likes you then lucky you if not then look for someone who does. The best thing is to make her your friend first and then you can build on it cuz if you can't get along as friends you'll never get along as lovers.
2006-08-24 21:01:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
you do not need to act like a dip shi.t or something your not just go up and ask her out ans when your out tell her alittle about yourself and let her tell alittle about herself to if she wants to but do not talk her leg off. remember there is no one better to help you then you. your the only one that can make thing happen for you on this one. half the battle is being yourself in front of the girl you want to be with or ask out. A fool is a person that lets something slip through his/her fingers and that person sits back and doess nothing
but a winner is one that trys and if he fails he still is a winner but who knows she might say yes too
2006-08-24 21:10:30 · answer #8 · answered by Paul G 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first and foremost talk to her, find out what she likes, let her know that you are interested in her by talking to her just simple stuff at first ask her for help with something... ectra. as for how to act around her be your self other wise she might like who your pretending to be more then who you really are. finally its OK to be nervous, most girls have a need to be supportive if she likes you too she will respond if she does not then you can at least know that you tried. women are complicated you have to adapt to what type of person they are... but that's another class all together...
2006-08-24 21:04:41 · answer #9 · answered by misseryman 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
girls like a guy that can be cool calm and collected. you have to be yourself. if a guy is too shy, then it turns a girl away. it can be hard to work up the nerve, but it is better if you ask her yourself, don't send a friend to do it or a note. start by asking if she would like to hang out or catch a movie or even do homework together. go from there. don't be rude like some guys. and if she accepts, then find out if she has a boyfriend, if not then ask her if she would like to date you. tell her she is pretty or that she lloks nice, smells good, she is smart, those kinds of things. don't tell her she has a cute butt or stare at her chest, girls hate that kind of thing.
2006-08-25 03:38:12 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋