I want to seek revenge on my cheating spouse because he doesn't know a good thing when he has one. Any advice

Answer 1

When he goes to sleep, super glue his dick to his leg.

Answer 2

So let me get this straight you are seeking revenge and you consider you're a good thing? What you think you had nothing to do with your relationship with him? I would start looking within yourself first. Don't waste your time with revenge try to do a time-line of your relationship and see if you can learn from it. No relationship fails because of one spouse. Cheating can be just a physical or emotional or it could be just a mistake. If you are trying to save the good thing then look deeper. If not revenge is just not worth it and move on.

Answer 3

If you want him to realize what he has, then it's important to keep that intact. Your integrity is a huge part of who you are, and one of the biggest reasons for him to appreciate you. To stoop to the level of vengeful actions just makes you like everyone else. You aren't separating yourself from the women he's cheating with if you turn around and cheat as well. In some way, you are just condoning their behavior.

Real revenge is long-term, and won't be something you see or feel very fast. But I say, stay true. That way you know you can always know you were the bigger person. Just know that his cheating isn't because you are lacking in anything, but because he is. Hold onto your self-esteem and poise, and find a happy life despite his actions. It will bother him HUGELY to see you not reacting to his antics. Calmly tell him it has to stop, and if it doesn't, calmly leave. But don't become hysterical or nasty, or it just gives him more things to say about you. If you act up, it tells him that you think you need him. If you don't, you send the message that you are so above him, he's not even worth the emotional energy to get excited. You're worth more than that, and you'll just go find someone who recognizes it.

If you end up having to leave him, be a secure, confident woman, and it will bug him until the day he dies.

Answer 4

Sleeping around with another man is just a good way to push your spouse away from you and turn you into whore status? I would make him think you might be doing something but don't actually do it. All that will do is make you feel miserable. Go do fun things alone with friends.

There are a couple of things that I just thought of. One would be that you could tell him the other woman called saying she is pregnant. The other would be for you to create an official document that looks like it came from the health department to the house. It should say that he has been named as a person of interest that has had sexual contact with a person that has a communicable disease and he needs to go get tested. Scare the living crap out of him. I like that idea now that I think about it and will use it myself if necessary.

Answer 5

You dont have to get revenge. Hopefully, your no longer with him. Once a cheater, ALWAYS a cheater. They cant help themselves. And your right, they never know what they had till it's gone..The best 'Revenge' is for you to live the best life you can possible live, be your own person, put all of your energy on yourself and your children, (if you have them). Dont waste another minute worring about him, you dont get those minutes back.. Good luck, and keep your head held up super high! : )

Answer 6

Trust is something that takes years to build and seconds to destroy. The sweetest revenge is letting him/her see you go on without him/her. Do you really want to spend valuable time in this short life making both of yourselves miserable? Get a good counselor and a good lawyer ASAP and take care and protect yourself. If you have children make sure they are OK.

don't take advice from people who say cheat on him. That is just stupid. Would you want to degrade yourself for the sake of making him jealous. Does that make sense at all?

Answer 7

Do you plan to tell him you had an affair too. If you don't what good will that do. None. I have had revenge sex because I found my wife was being a real whore with her coworkers. I had an opportunity with a woman and took up on it because I was feeling so low that I felt it didn't matter. I am sorry I did in some ways, because it really didn't help me with my wife's issues. She is still a whore.

Answer 8

Poor girl, no revenge please. It will do you no good but sorrow. Have a straight forward talk with him. Have him decided on the relationship. Man is a man sometimes he gets lost along the way home so long as he gets home even though he has taken a detour. Just forgive him for the sake of marriage. Good luck.

Answer 9

You'd be surprized what a pack of matches and a galloon of gas can do to the human body!! How about after peeing you squirl his tooth brush in the toilet bowl and put it back. Put his cell phone in the microwave for 2 minutes and when he gets a new one do the same. Slash the soles of all his shoes so when it rains his socks get soaked. Cut a button so it is on the verge of falling off and it does after he has put it on and gone to work. Give the remote control to your girlfriend and let her hang onto it for a week.

If you want more ideas just let me know.

Answer 10

Revenge is not the answer to that...just cause he did it to u doest me u have to do it with him...Take the upper hand if he cheated on u...just know someone else is out there and wants better...and u just may be that person of better...what comes around goes around..just sit back and watch cause its coming sonner then later

Answer 11

If you get revenge, are you still a "good thing"? (And you can only answer that for yourself.)
Having been there, your best bet is to pursue healing for yourself because there is no way to go through what you are without a great deal of pain. I can tell you that my ex-husband has regretted his very bad decisions many times, but it took time.