2006-08-24 20:33:52 · 27 answers · asked by Christopher b 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
A caring husband would want nothing less. I don't see the problem unless the wife has something to hide. Like an extra-curricular boyfriend?
2006-08-24 20:37:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
When my husband goes out I like to have a rough idea where he is going to be and when he will be back but I don't care who he is with. I trust him, as long as he calls if he is going to be late so I don't worry. The way you say it sounds obsessive. You act like that and you aren't going to have a wife for long. You really don't have a "right" to know that stuff.
I really do wonder about people who marry someone they don't trust in the first place or is it just some crazy male obsession.
2006-08-24 21:00:10 · answer #2 · answered by Constant_Traveler 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course you are allowed to know where your wife is and with whom..but if there's no problem in the relationship this shouldn't matter.
If you trust her you don't want to check what she's doing every minute...it will drive you crazy.
Discuss with your wife what you want and compromise. Maybe your talk should explore the reasons why you want to know all the time. Good Luck
2006-08-24 20:40:50 · answer #3 · answered by Issabella 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, when a person gets married they become of one flesh. It is common courtesy to let the person you are married to know where you are and who is with you, if for only respect. Also you now share a life with the person ( when you marry) how can you share a life with some one when when you don't know where they are. If you should have to contact the person you are married to for an emergency, you should know where they are. You have the right to know where your partner is because you are married and their partner. If they have a problem with it, then perhaps they should not be married. If they are not doing any thing they should not do.......Why wouldn't the partner want you to know where they are?
2006-08-24 20:44:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
To the extent. I mean, if your wife is pissed off at you, she may just want to be alone for awhile. Therefore she slams the dorr and goes away. If you two have no problems and she is sincere with you, she would tell. But you need to trust her too and do not spy on her, etc.
2006-08-24 21:21:52 · answer #5 · answered by Amber 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your question sounds scary to me and maybe a bit on the controlling side If she hasnt given you a reason to feel insecure then give her the benefit of the doubt and even if you find out she has broken the vows you can't do anything about it but move on and divorce he or stay and work it out.
2006-08-24 21:11:40 · answer #6 · answered by CaliMa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think so not just for possession reasons but in case of an emergency. If there is nothing to hide she would come out and tell you where she is going and whom she is going with.
2006-08-24 20:38:09 · answer #7 · answered by luvlisteningtomusic 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not in the US. In a healthy marriage both parties should communicate this information. But neither have a legal right to know.
2006-08-24 20:38:34 · answer #8 · answered by Deb 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
In a healthy relationship that question wouldnt be an issue. She should be willing to offer where she is going and with who before she leaves. But, if you are constantly calling her cell or something while she is out, and questioning her repeatedly about where she is........ then it becomes like accusing her of something. But normally, yes. you have the right to ask where she is and with who. trust issues. arent they fun.
2006-08-24 20:38:55 · answer #9 · answered by rwdycwgrl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
a wife and husbund have equal rights in amarriage it is not wrong for ahusbund to know where his wife is and especially to know whom she is with,if the wife was to take offence to it or seem up set by it i would assume she was cheating on the husbund my husbund alwatys knows who i am with and vice versa
2006-08-24 20:55:21 · answer #10 · answered by treatau 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋