i was married for 7 1/2 years with my 2 daughters father. but he cheated on me badly and got a girl pregnant. now i'm with my boyfriend of 10 1/2 months and it seems like were fighting because of trust issues and i get mad when he doesn't spend all his time with me. because of what my ex husband did now i think he's cheating on me he hasn't called me in 3 days is he cheating on me. or is it me being insecure and having no trust at all he said he loves me and would never hurt me in that way. what should i do
2006-08-24 19:58:43 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
he lives in the same building as his family and his sister said she know her brother and he wouldn't do that to me because he got hurt before too.
2006-08-24 20:00:08 · update #1
try not to worry too much about it for know...and try and look after yourself and the girls.......just wait for him to call ... He will call and come back ......and please leave the past behind ( ex-husband) completely forgot about him.........you found a man now ......... don't compare him with your ex -husband cause that's a totally turn off for your boyfriend and you might be loosing him too.....take care....
2006-08-24 20:15:57 · answer #1 · answered by amanda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to be happy with yourself before you go into a new relationship. I think you still have a lot of issues to deal with---especially self esteem and security.
Stop reliving the past, live in the future and stop worrying. Just enjoy the moment and everything will fall into place. If your current boyfriend cares about you then he wont cheat right? RELAX!
2006-08-25 03:07:00 · answer #2 · answered by nat04 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You seem to be self centred and find yourself right all the way. Try to find something in you that makes you itchy on "Trust" front. Trust which could not be developed for 7.5 years of your marriage can not be had in less than a year. You seemed to have left your husband and are with your bf. Where do you place yourself on Trust Front. Develop trust in yourself and go to your ex-husband, start afresh.
2006-08-25 03:13:37 · answer #3 · answered by Freddie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to relax.Its just you are scared that you may loose him is making you doubt him.Trust him.Remember that if you keep fighting with him you may loose him as no one wants a naggy person.Be good to him & he'll always love you more & more.Trust his words..he will never hurt you.He is giving you time to cool down thats y he did not call you.
2006-08-25 03:18:46 · answer #4 · answered by Smiles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thank you for the easily given points. I am not one to normally do such a thing, but now you are really overdoing it. You have asked the same question 3 times, I wonder what you actually want to know. Please stop this multiple posting or you will be deleted...
2006-08-25 03:06:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try facing your fears. If he doesn't call you, then find a diversion. Spend time with your kids, or g-friends. Just try not thinking of him 24/7.
2006-08-25 03:07:44 · answer #6 · answered by jen_good girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Totally heed the words that his sister said.
Dont be so clingy.
Maybe go to a day spa or something.
Relax babe.
2006-08-25 03:02:21 · answer #7 · answered by tombomber27 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's the problem with you yaar, don't u have some good question to ask. Better in this regard you consult some phscologist he''ll help you.
2006-08-25 03:02:58 · answer #8 · answered by Afzee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd suggest you get counselling to deal with insecurity issues. It sounds as if this will help you :)
2006-08-25 03:02:48 · answer #9 · answered by xian 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't let him upsetting you. After all he is not the first so just enjoy the time as it passes by.
2006-08-25 03:05:48 · answer #10 · answered by Rod 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋