...why should you have to choose? Make a living AND maintain a happy marriage/ relationship/ partnership/ whatever. Lots of people do it.
2006-08-24 19:49:47
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answered by Anonymous
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You cannot choose between those two things, they are completely different.
Work on the relationship is much more important though, because family is a priority. Unfortunately, having a family means having to be able to financially sustain it, and so in order to work on your relationship you have to go working to earn money. You don't need to be a millionaire, but to raise kids, money is needed. To work on your relationship entails that you earn a bit of money as well because just sitting at home the whole day, lazing, during the whole year, is not very good for any relationship, as routine comes in. If no one works, there will be money problem, and then the relationship will be likely to have problems as well if one person is too lazy to even do a single thing.
In the absolute, the relationship must have priority...but it is a pretty interesting, though hard to answer question.
2006-08-25 03:41:14
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answered by Anonymous
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I think that question depends on your expectations of having this last. Money can only make you so happy and be gone in an instant, but the relationship will have benefits that will last a lifetime. SO if you choose to earn the money and let the relationship go, who is going to be there to share the wealth? Surely not the one you are in a relationship with now. Yet, if you choose the relationship, there will always be time to earn money together. Nobody said we had to make millions...we only need to make a living.
2006-08-25 02:56:29
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answered by Hollynfaith 6
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I have been dealing with this issue for years. Financial stress and a solid financial foundation is very important in a relationship. Financial stress can rip apart a relationship. You have to find the balance. You can't live on love. you cant raise a family on crackers and catsup. look into using money more efficiently so you do not need to work as much.
2006-08-25 04:46:53
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answered by jgreenkc@sbcglobal.net 2
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I think there needs to be a balance between money and ur relationship. Sometimes it sways one way more than the other due to circumstances but in the long run both are equally important.
2006-08-25 02:54:50
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answered by Tony 4
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its more important to work on ur relationship coz once time goes out for it then it wont come back n money can always b earned. but not a good relationship.
2006-08-25 06:48:29
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answered by pam c 3
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Money is important to lead a quality life. and ur relationship also expects a good quality life. Both are important. You have to keep relationship on TOP and also see to that u earn good money to sustain the growing standards of life. U need money to keep ur materialistic mind happy. and u need relationship to keep ur MIND and Heart happy. u cant afford to ignore any one of them.
2006-08-25 04:47:20
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answered by coolguy2695 2
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Look at it this way. Usually most people only have one true love in their life. Lets say you have a million dollars. Your love of your life and your million dollars are on a plane. That plane crashes and your love of your life perishes in the crash. Your money burns in the flames of the crash. Which one do you think it will be easier to get back? You can always work hard to get your money back. But your love is gone forever. Relationship definitly.
2006-08-25 03:48:23
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answered by sdo3lg 4
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One should be mature enough to keep these two , like hands in gloves , ensur balance the both , give full respecrt to your love and same time practice to manage time, effectively to ensure smooth earning without any pressure or hurdels . As both are essential to servive in this world , with only one , you can not lead your life happily .
2006-08-25 03:12:26
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answered by your noon 5
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Both you need work to survive and you need a relationship for company whats having money with no one to share it with
2006-08-28 19:58:07
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answered by marrissa 3
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For men making money is more important,no money-no honey.For women relationship should be more important,because if she plays her cards right her partner will be working to make money.She do not have to worry.
2006-08-26 20:05:50
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answered by Anonymous
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