I just got married to my virgin wife and had trouble in the beginning cuz she thought she had vaginititis (watever).. or was tiny. But now we been doing it.. and she complains at times that I want it too much. How much is too much? especially when it's never enough.
2006-08-24 19:46:09 · 15 answers · asked by Wqr 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Some women have low sex drives What kind of birth control is she on? It may affect it? I like it 3 times a day if possible or 6 even. Obviously some are quickies but I have a very high sex drive. Try more oral sex maybe and above all else, if you are using condoms check and see if she might be allergic to latex. If she is allergic to walnuts she may be. But a huge thing, ALWAYS have lube around, ask her if she feels dry. Even if she isnt sometimes lube can make sex better. Try WET Platinum. Keeps you wet longer and it's not too sticky or KY Jelly it's water based also.
2006-08-24 19:50:16 · answer #1 · answered by alana6382 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you need to take it a bit slowly with her. She's not sexually experienced so maybe you should make it more romantic and be gentle with her. Take the time to light some candles, soft music, tell her you love her and that you're so proud you're the only man she'll ever know and make her feel like a million bucks so maybe she won't dread it so much. Us females don't need to have sex as much as you males, so when all you wanna do all day long is fornicate, it takes the joy out of it and it can become tiring. Coax her into it or do something different (surprise her in the shower) and you never know she might become a nymphomaniac!! then you'd be the one complaining!
2006-08-24 20:05:04 · answer #2 · answered by julsgene 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Twice a day is plenty for someone who is new to sex. Your girl will never learn to enjoy sex completely if she feels pressured. Her pressure to perform will put a lot of anxiety in connection with sex, which will eventually really hurt your sex life.
Personally, I found that I enjoy pleasuring my man orally and often can take the edge off for him during a time when I don't really feel like having a whole session of intercourse. This takes time to get 'good' at, but it can be fun and enjoyable for both people involved.
Remember, your lady is not an amusement park. Don't forget to tell her often how much you love her and love to be with her, as well as compliment her physical attributes. Slow down, even if it kills you, and give her some time. It will pay off.
Good luck! :)
2006-08-24 20:04:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, congrats for the recent nuptials. Part of being in a marriage is learning compromise. Maybe she has gotten tender from so often. Take some time. You're married now and you have plenty of time to figure out the frequency of your sex life. If you keep her sore she will be less likely to enjoy it later. Good luck to you both
2006-08-24 19:56:00 · answer #4 · answered by STEPHEEDEE 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
4 times a day is abnormal. Normal is around 3-5 times a week.
Don't you have to be at work? Why's there so much time for sex?
2006-08-24 21:14:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe her vagina gets dry and it hurts to have sex after a couple times in a 24 hour period. If you love her, you will take the time to find out her reasons for objecting.
2006-08-24 19:51:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go along with her needs. If you want more, ask her to mustarbate you. If she is complaining about the number of times you are having sex, I think you are not satisfying her or she is not experiencing orgasm.
2006-08-24 19:58:38 · answer #7 · answered by john j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you did not make her wet enough that's why she complains of not enjoying it....try to do a long foreplay that she will love and then see if she wants to stop
2006-08-24 19:59:57 · answer #8 · answered by ♥♥♥H뮧hË¥™♥♥♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
4 times a day is acceptable.. not too much :) lol
2006-08-24 19:50:47 · answer #9 · answered by Prince 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there's nothing like too much, that's just an excuse for her too get out of it. i guess you are pretty bad in bed
2006-08-24 19:49:25 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋