Ok, i have thsi friend. Her name is Kaitlyn. I have this other friend and her name is Michelle. They absolutly HATE eachother. But the absolutly love me! They keep getting in fights and putting me in the middle of them. I made a myspace with my friend Michelle to share when she slept over. I told her that we should all share one because i knew Kaitlyn's feelings would be hurt.But Michelle didn't want to ofcouse, and since she was sleeping over and i had to play with her i didn't want us to be mad at eachother so i went along with it. Now, I don't know what to do. Michelle is always jelous of kaitlyn and visa versa!! I want to just delete the myspace but that would just cause even more problems!! How do i make them stop fighting?!?!?! or at least make them get along better?? I need help!!
2006-08-24 19:46:08 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
*this i spelled it wrong sorry
2006-08-24 19:46:29 · update #1
I guess you can't make them do anything they don't want to do. All you can do is be patient with both of them, until they realize how great of a friend you are. They both have the insecurity of losing you as a best friend, and it looks like they don't want to share that, out of that fear. In time perhaps they will both come to realize you like them equally, and simply just enjoy the friendship. They will have to work this out between them. If it seems to overwhelming, brake away from them for awhile and observe how they do. Perhaps, they will turn toward each other out of curiosity wondering how you are because you havn't been around, and begin getting along, a bit better. Therefore if you take yourself out of the picture, what will they do. Arguements may surface at first, which will be the insecurity, and placing blame. But eventually, perhaps they will discover friendship in each other, and along the way figure out why you had to cut yourself out of the picture. The other side, would be accept their insecurity, and individuality, and just keep hanging out with them. Eventually with your patience, they will realize you can't be swayed on one side or the other. In addition, you could also tell them both at the same time, you like them both because they are so great of friends, but can't handle their argueing, because you want to have friendships that are open, and not be in the middle, and it's not fair to you to be put in that position. Hope that helps good luck.
2006-08-24 20:10:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey Theres A Simple Solution 2 ur problem wat u can do is stop talking to both of them n tell them tht r really depressed coz of their fights...n if they find u as their true friend they both will b wanting to see u happy n for ur sake they will stop this fight n get along........i think this is the only solution b'czo they both r ur friends n they will ofcourse, not like if u r depressed coz of thm n the ultimately solution bfore them will be friendship.....all the very best
2006-08-25 03:05:22 · answer #2 · answered by tweetie_pie_ashley 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get them all together and tell them whats up.
Tell them that they are making you feel awkward by putting you in bad situations.
And delete that stupid myspace account. That's probably one of the main points of your dilema.
Be sure to tell them how you feel and maybe they will loosen up. :)
2006-08-25 03:13:32 · answer #3 · answered by tombomber27 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make a myspace page with Kaitlyn, their probaly always going to compete for your attention.
2006-08-25 02:55:15 · answer #4 · answered by mznatural30 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just get them together and have a slumber party and talk about your felling and when they feel a rage .u just leave out the room and let them talk an d talk a little .
2006-08-25 02:52:26 · answer #5 · answered by TYrine F 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wat id do is delete the my space and then put the two of them in a room make them seat side by side and tell them......."listen you two you have to either get along together and stop being childish!or you both get along with out me coz i cant have one without the other or both so get along..!!!"then storm out of the room and leave them together they are bound to make up.
2006-08-25 03:05:08 · answer #6 · answered by tshol 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well tell them to stop putting you in the middle when they have problems with eachother ignore it and tell themto work it out you cant have the pie and eat it too.
2006-08-25 02:52:39 · answer #7 · answered by daniel l 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cant everyone just all get along the world would be such a better place if that happend
2006-08-25 02:49:18 · answer #8 · answered by bite_me_harder_28 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
we got the same problem girl
2006-08-25 02:53:56 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
god i hate these long questions
2006-08-25 02:48:29 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋