if ur man hasn't called you in 3 days and you spoke with his family and his sister said he was sleep he even goes to sleep when he with me sometime and get mad when i wake him but he lives in the same building as his family and his sisters said he wouldn't cheat on me and he doesn't hang out like that but we got into a fight 3 days ago and he hasn't called me should i worry or is it me overeacting about it all.
2006-08-24 19:38:42 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
he said he loves me all the time should i trust him even though he hasn't called me
2006-08-24 19:40:07 · update #1
Hmm... I'm a little confused. I think you are overreacting. I don't think he is cheating just because he hasn't called you. Maybe he's still mad about that fight you guys had? Just leave him alone for now...he obviously wants his space. If he doesn't call you in the next couple of days, try to move on.
2006-08-24 19:44:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're sitting around emailing websites for advice and worrying about what he's doing AND HE'S DOING EXACTLY WHAT HE WANTS TO DO- hello!!! Cheating? What?- if he's not cheating then everything's OK? Wake up and get real. If there is any chance this guy will come around, it will be when you completely back off. This means don't make inquiries to his family or friends, too. He's telling you with actions that he is not interested at this moment. Do you need him to say it any louder? The issue is not whether he's cheating, it's that he doesn't want to have contact with your right now. No you shouldn't worry, you should get on with your life and NEVER let a guy be your single and primary focus. Girls you need to expect alot more from the men in your lives. Do not be doormats. P.S. He may have narcolepsy with all the sleeping he's doing.
2006-08-25 02:49:39 · answer #2 · answered by gmpranis1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust that he is not cheating or that he still wants a relationship? It has been three days, swallow your feelings and take it that he isn't coming back.
If he is sulking , he isn't ready to play in the grown up's world yet. If he is hurt from the fight and not ready to talk , ditto!You don't need a partner like that, so don't take him back.
Or maybe this is just his way of avoidance of the "We are going nowhere, lets give ourselves a break for a while " speech.
If love could conquer all ills that would be amazing, but it doesn't. Look in the mirror, tell youself that you have a lot to offer the world and step onto the next stage of your life.
Good luck!
2006-08-25 02:48:04 · answer #3 · answered by Christine H 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is probably not cheating, he could just be mad at you because of the fight. Did you start that fight? maybe he wants to see whether you care enugh for him to call him yourself. But actually, why call. You could just as well pay him a surprise visit. I am sure he'd be very happy to get back on good terms with you.
Good Luck
2006-08-25 02:49:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you guys had a fight he might not have called you back yet because he is mad at you. It don't sound like he is cheating, but maybe just tired. Trust him until he gives you a reason to not trust him. if you keep pushing him though, he might start cheating just because you already thinks that he does. Give him some space..
2006-08-25 02:43:41 · answer #5 · answered by Just Me 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well...I kinda had a hard time understanding your explanation...you need punctuation in there somewhere. Anyways, you're probably overreacting...Just cause he goes to sleep when he's with you doesn't mean he's cheating. Maybe he's stressed out over something completely unrelated to you, or he's working or studying too hard. If he hasn't called you, you call him.
2006-08-25 02:43:54 · answer #6 · answered by J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have a meeting with him and be straight to ask him what he thinks. You should speak your mind on the altercation you had with him. He may or may not be cheating, you have to find out by yourself. Since you are impatient, you should clear the things, irght now.
2006-08-25 03:39:38 · answer #7 · answered by Freddie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't just straightaway have that thinking that he is a cheater ,their may be something wrong he may be disturb because of any reason first try to find out the exact reason and then decide.
2006-08-25 02:50:51 · answer #8 · answered by sanjay j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your overeacting wait one more week and he didnt call u call him at a time when he buissess then tell him that we havent talk and i have to leave u .u have no respect for me i dont want to be with u no more were going our seprate ways.
2006-08-25 02:44:38 · answer #9 · answered by TYrine F 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he is not. But you got yourself a husband who runs back to his family each time there's a fight/quarrel with you. That's not good. He is a mama's boy.
2006-08-25 04:12:54 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋