i met a guy that has it all, great family, bmw car and a big house and he is so sweet to me, i fell for him in 5 days, he was willing to give up anything for me and would really make me happy but i have a boyfriend of 2 years and 8 months that loves me but ill i need is someone to be trully there.
2006-08-24 19:18:37 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Sweetie, you need to emotionally remove yourself from the situation. Take three steps back and take a good hard look at your question. There is a reason people are accusing you of being a gold digger. What you need to ask yourself is:
What is it really that attracts you to this guy? (bmw guy)
Is it the money and comfort he could provide?
Why are you still with your boyfriend?
I am going to tell you what I would tell my best friend...break up with your boyfriend. If you have fallen for someone else, the relationship is over anyway. If you're just attracted to bmw guy's money, don't date him either. It isn't fair to either of you.
You need to take some time off from dating altogether, and get your priorities set straight.
2006-08-24 19:30:50 · answer #1 · answered by Chellebelle78 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen to yourself gal fren... u love the BMW, house , money or u love the person more??? As compared to 2yrs and 8 mths of devoted love from a guy... which is truely the one u will choose... but in anycase... u have to listen to what ur heart is telling u ... will staying with the BMW guy gives u a great future and u can be sure he will not have other affairs (cos he is really so great)..... or the 2 years and 8 mths guys can give u more security and attention...??? I am comparing 2 years with 5 days... with whom will u feel more comfortable w???? u know the answer dear... i know u may not like the answer in ur heart.. but it is still ur decision.. to risk and stay w the BMW guy or to stay on with the 2 years guy.... no matter what.. settle it peacefully okay....
2006-08-25 02:24:30 · answer #2 · answered by veramira 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well any BMW owning guy you met for five days must be better than some dude you just have known for 2 years. At least tell the 2 year guy about the BMW so he knows you are a shallow tool.
2006-08-25 02:22:11 · answer #3 · answered by Nojunk N 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Rich boys know how to lure women and it's exciting to date them since they have the means. However, since they're used to getting what they want, they easily take things for granted once they get them.
So he might sound like a dream now but once he sets you aside for a new toy or a chase, you could easily be "puff the magic dragon" set aside by little jackie paper. That's where the nightmare begins and regret sets in.
On the other hand, a boyfriend who truly loves you is a treasure. Keep him. He's worth more than any car or mansion or all of them combined.
If you want someone who will be there for you, choose the one who loves you. Like Shakespeare said, "It is an ever-fixed mark that looks on tempest and is never shaken."
2006-08-25 02:38:21 · answer #4 · answered by ladyluck 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The grass is always greener on the other side of the fence. This is probably infatuation and if so, it doesn't have a foundation for any future.
The question you have to look at is this: How is your relationship with your current boyfriend going? What do you want from it? Where do you see it going? Cuz it seems to me that if a little bling bling and five days can make you doubt, something isn't right.
2006-08-25 02:22:22 · answer #5 · answered by Church Music Girl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you have to decide ! Who do you really love and do you know what love is or feels like?Is your boyfriend faithful does he listen does he show in many ways that he cares for you do you trust him has he given you a reason to distrust him there are many factor involved in a relationship many you don't sound to satisfied with your boy friend or is it that the other guy has things that you desire things don't necessarily provide the kind of comfort and fulfill the truly important things involved in a loving relationship think about what your giving up is it worth keeping because intimacy and time will show you what is real and what is shallow
2006-08-25 02:30:54 · answer #6 · answered by sdevin1962 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men r always "sweet & nice" in the begining state, my dear!
U alrdy hv a bf tat is 2yrs+ but he is ill, ill in wat sense? He will recover right? He has been there w u for so long....n jus cos he is ill u r thinking of leaving? R u being "fair" to him?
Well if he is gng to b forever ill then u hv to think twice abt it...but u hv to hv a good talk w him b4 u just walk out la...
N pls bear in mind a relationship sure to hv up & down, it all depend on how far u want go w this man....dun cos of a moment of "sweetness" n u lost yr way.........
2006-08-25 02:38:16 · answer #7 · answered by D@ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask yourself this question **~** "Do I really love this guy??" **~** If you've been with this guy 4 a long time **~** and you still feel a strong affection for him **~** I would stick with the first guy **~** You may feel just puppy love 4 the BMW guy **~** but just think to yourself **~** a guy has stuck with you for 2yrs going on 3!! **~** either he is playing a good game **~** or he really does love you **~** If I were you **~** I'd stay with my BF **~**
2006-08-25 02:29:20 · answer #8 · answered by ana_bella_07 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're in one difficult situation girl. Try discerning what you really want. Who do you really love? your bf who needs you, or ds guy who has great things to offer. Yes, the new guy could be rich and sweet, but do you really love this guy or you just enjoy the attention? You should follow your heart.
2006-08-25 02:40:14 · answer #9 · answered by jen_good girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Common you just want some one to tell you to go for the rich boy. Do it other wise you will hate your boyfriend for the rest of your life. Collateral damage is part of life. Money talks and bullshit walks. Go get him girl. Don't worry if every one tells you that you are shallow and a gold digger. Live that life.
2006-08-25 02:24:55 · answer #10 · answered by Charles Athole M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋