if it's not working out but your too afraid to end the relationship
because she might do something foolish.
2006-08-24 19:05:12 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
call her bluff and call her parents, if she is older, call the psych ward
2006-08-24 19:08:07 · answer #1 · answered by Dawn C 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
What is so bad that she's suicidal? This is sort of a tough one. Kinda damned if you do and damned if you don't. Is it possible to break off the relationship without breaking off the friendship? Maybe try telling her that this dating thing is too complicated and you don't want to ruin the friendship or hurt her? Suggest you guys go back to being friends until she sorts a few things out in life. I would think you'd have to reassure her it's not because of anyone else, or because she's got issues...something like that. Geez, I honestly don't know. I wish I had some advice, but I've never been in a situation like that. I mean she could just be doing it for the attention. There is a big difference between saying you're going to kill yourself and actually trying it. My heart goes out to you.
2006-08-24 19:16:19 · answer #2 · answered by Hollynfaith 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Her problems are her own, not yours. You are not responsible for her actions, only your own. So, my advice is...Let someone close to her know that she is having thoughts of suicide. Maybe you can tell her family, or simply offer to take her to an emergency room, where they have counselors from mental health that can offer her support and help. All you can do is offer your help, or tell someone close to her to keep an eye on her after you break up with her and are out of the picture. She is not your responsibility, but I really feel you'd be acting responsible if you offered this help before you leave her alone. That act of simple kindness could make all the difference in the way that she handles you leaving her. I commend you for caring about her that much. Good luck in your future relationships...You deserve someone just as kind as you are.
2006-08-24 19:17:25 · answer #3 · answered by Cynthia 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my bro had this prob with his ex. Maybe u should talk to her parents let them know whats going on then break up with her.....at least they will know and can help her thru it. You cant stay in a relationship out of guilt. Shes being suicidal cos shes lost her self esteem. She needs counselling.
2006-08-24 19:08:40 · answer #4 · answered by nicole 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, you are not her keeper. If you want to end it, then end it. If she is so stupid to commit suicide it's up to her. Otherwise she will forever keep you with her using suicide as a threat. You will be a prisoner to her mind games.
2006-08-24 21:26:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to your parents and hers telling them things are not working out and she might need help to get over you
2006-08-24 19:22:12 · answer #6 · answered by bouchard54 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know how to answer this question. Because you just never know. But, Don't stay if your not happy, life is to short . She will get over it sooner or later. We all do, have, will
2006-08-24 19:18:27 · answer #7 · answered by ♥tk♦star♥ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have a good friend that is a GREAT psychologist, and he said that the one's who say they are going to kill themselves NEVER do it...it's the ones that never mention it that end up dead.
2006-08-24 19:13:21 · answer #8 · answered by coken151 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simple, just walk away and change your phone numbers, never talk to her again.
2006-08-24 19:07:13 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Introduce her to another man immediately
2006-08-24 19:07:33 · answer #10 · answered by SweetBrunette 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you better not or we will break your neck. well, be a man, take her to the river and ask her to play with the fishes.
2006-08-24 19:09:54 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋