is this normal, or is she getting cold feet, or is she trying to say good-bye?
I need some opinions
2006-08-24 18:46:21 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
well i'll tell ya, if your 'gal pal' wants to try out men, and your mormon hubby wants to try out other women, it seems to me that you ought to be sitting on top of the world at the moment.
2006-08-24 19:19:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
While I am not gay or lesbian I can still provide you with the answer,which in no way should affect your decision. First you need to know if it is something she just wants to experiment with kinda llike a fantasy,or is it she is attracted to males and does not want to be with a female,it could be pressures from her parents to conform to a normal relationship,but what I will tell you is that I am Catholic but I view same sex marriage as the same, I truly believe that when two hearts love and care for each other more than anything in the world,they are meant to be together,fantasy will always tempt one another if you let it,the answer is to be strong,unwaivering in faith,love and care. If you believe she wants to try other things support her but dont let it get out of hand or you will lose it all,I heard a very true song tonite on the radio,it is country but you should listen to it as it will help you,the name is Cheap motel, Good luck
2006-08-24 19:04:16 · answer #2 · answered by truckracer26 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she simply wants to know what she might be missing. Everyone is different, you can't make assumptions.
Um, and what's with your usage of the term :"Gal pal?"
Are you or are you not girlfriends?
Sounds to me like you're both a bit scared of commitment.
2006-08-24 18:51:22 · answer #3 · answered by DEATH 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The profile tells much...
Apparently, you're a pregnant woman who doesn't know who the child's father is, married to a man that wants to convert to Mormonism to practice polygamy, yet you also have a girlfriend who's nervous to commit to a permanent relationship, and yet, according to your only answer, you're a heterosexual.
Are you more than one person using the same account? Because if you're only one person, my recommendation is to either go on Jerry Springer or Oprah, depending on the angle you want. Or maybe Dr. Phil.
2006-08-24 19:19:00 · answer #4 · answered by fire_leo_805 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It relies upon on what "dating" skill. It additionally relies upon on each and each State and the style of divorce. Are there toddlers in contact, etc? There are some divorces that truly drag on for months into years. that's unreasonable to ask somebody, guy or woman, to easily keep waiting on the paperwork that who is conscious while that's finalized, to no longer have any form of dating. additionally, you pronounced "every physique is conscious a 300 and sixty 5 days after.."; that doesn't fly. each and each man or woman man or woman is diverse, with their very own set of non-public struggles, thresholds and potential. In all certainty, maximum folk do no longer elect everywhere close to a 300 and sixty 5 days to "committ" returned. it may take one man or woman 3 weeks, and yet another 3 years. every physique is diverse, and that's counseled to you which you cope with every physique of their very own understand to their very own individuality. you will discover that as many there are human beings, there are perspectives and ranges of handle-skill. as nicely, there are way too many variables on suitable of the adjustments in men and ladies, which you will assert such definatives approximately human beings customarily. You and your bf could desire to seek for that answer of point of committment all by yourselves. I additionally propose which you seek for a pre-marrital counselor, pastor or professional to stay away from some astonishing painful pitfalls. Relationships are artwork. complicated observe. nicely worth all of it, yet artwork even with the reality that. you besides could pronounced, "the divorce is real, i think of". it relatively is a purple flag if i've got seen one. Why could you assert, "i think of"? the two that's or it isnt'. What could reason you to question whether that's? it relatively is the real question. So, with all you may, "Make it artwork!"
2016-12-11 15:02:20 · answer #5 · answered by bornhoft 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes that is normal.U dont want 2 get married an then find out she cheattin on u wit a man.If she's neva tried it then let it go down.It might b fun if u join in or even watch.Think'a bout it.....
2006-08-24 20:27:00 · answer #6 · answered by sophatup 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Has she ever had sex with a man before? I know that I never slept with any guys and when I became sexually active with my girlfriend I wanted to try penis.
My advice - get a strap on
2006-08-24 19:05:54 · answer #7 · answered by gretphemelger 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's pretty confusing... so, you have a gal pal, but also a husband? who the hell are you? coz u're not polyandre since your gal pal is a woman, but u not polygam since you're a woman...
Or maybe you just making all this up...
2006-08-25 04:26:04 · answer #8 · answered by Gilno E 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
gal pal? clearly
i wouldnt give her a chance ot say bye bye, do it first.
2006-08-24 18:50:45 · answer #9 · answered by arielsalom33 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess there is nothing to do but wait and see.
Jumping the gun may cost you the chance for a relationship.
She may not even carry through, she could be looking for your ability to give her space.
Have you asked her this question?
She could give you the best answer.
2006-08-24 19:43:37 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋