Well when I went out with my friends ex, she seemed perfectly fine with it at first. She even got me to say yes to him. But afterwords at lunch she started flirting with him(giggling and whispering in his year), all my friends told me to watch my back because she has stolen their boyfriends before to. I got really mad at her and said something really bad(can't say on here). We have made up a million times but she still hates me even though I apologized. What should I do? Should I forget about her? F.Y.I. I'm not too good at making friends.
2006-08-24 18:28:59 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Misery loves company, and maybe she gets pleasure out of other people's pain in general. Maybe she's not really all that good of a friend.
2006-08-24 18:33:19 · answer #1 · answered by Natalie K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not too good with making freinds either...but i stay loyal to the ones i already have...I have a rule that I would never fall for a gurl who is either my freinds gurlfriend or ex-gurlfriend or cousin or sister. That's my way of showing loyalty, there are alot of other people in this world. I don't have to be obssesed over my freinds property or former property.
Even if my freind backstabs me the same way, I won't . I probably won't be friends with him anymore but i still know that at one point we were homies and i respect that, and out of that respect i won't even go for a enemies gurl...you knwo why? Because you friends are your greatest enemies, so in turn your enemies are your friends also, therefore forget about the guy and forget about your gurlfreind. And move on. But keep this inmind on who is off limits
2006-08-24 18:41:57 · answer #2 · answered by 0_0 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It makes me wonder if she used you dating this guy to get close to him again. That is just speculation. If she is known to "steal" boyfriends it makes me wonder. She should have had more respect for you. You said something out of anger and you have apologized on several occasions. She is being a little unreasonable. Move on. You don't need the drama. Good luck to you.
2006-08-24 18:38:42 · answer #3 · answered by geni 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is not a friend this is a bagger, who want's to steal, how cann you even try think about her!
she obi'sously wasn't agree with going out with her's girlfriend ex but she say that just to make your life miserable!
she probably knows about the thing that you are a little shy and you can't make friends so quikly and you'll kome after her, apolagising, instead her dooing that
tell me a thing: do you realy need a friend like that?
i don't think so
look, if you realy whant to talk to someone, i will be glad to be that persone
don't bother about her, she thinks that you are less good than her, show her the oposite!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
good luck!
2006-08-24 18:42:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she was using you!! Saying it was okay to date her ex, when she really had an ulterior motive. She could be setting you up to look like a fool so that her ex will appreciate her more!! She is no friend!!! I would also stop dating her ex....as he is obviously enjoying the rivarly or else he would have told her to can it!
2006-08-24 18:37:11 · answer #5 · answered by river 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep your enemies closer, but your best friends closer. your more likely to get hurt by someone you trust. remember that.
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if your true friends, you wouldnt of dated her ex boyfriend that she could still have feelings for, and now your dating him and its a way for her to get closer to him again. big mistake, i only date my friends ex's boyfriends, if i am 100% sure they are fine with it (and them just saying theyre fine doesnt cut it because sometimes they lie to make it look like they're not hurt) i wait until they've moved on to someone else.
2006-08-24 18:41:36 · answer #6 · answered by Xavier's Mommy ツ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sounds like to me that she really isnt a true friend if she has stolen your boyfriends before. I dont think there is any trust in your guys relationship and when there isnt trust there is nothing.
2006-08-24 18:38:27 · answer #7 · answered by tiggerluvnmom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you should end your friend ship with her, 1st rule to TRUE ffriendship NEVER date the other one's ex no matter what they say, or if they say it's ok, because it's not ok. before you know it your boyfriend will become hers and she'll think it's ok because your did it. I wouldn't never date any of my firends ex's.
2006-08-24 20:02:56 · answer #8 · answered by mznatural30 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should ditch her
hello obviously shes not your ture friend
im sure u will make new friends just talk 2 different people
2006-08-24 18:40:34 · answer #9 · answered by naomi202 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is jealous and envious...
Maybe you should start telling her that you dont want her to be your friend anymore.(Period!)..
She is not the kind of friend..and she doesnt deserve to be a friend..
2006-08-24 18:40:56 · answer #10 · answered by carmela24ph 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋