Well, DON'T. Because I have a cousin who is really pretty. She
was way overconfident....she let her fiance do it. He went alot.
She figured as long as he came home to her, no big deal. eh eh
They got married, went on honeymoon. About a month later, he
stopped coming home at night. Turns out he was screwing the
stripper all along !! At his bachelor party....the night before the
wedding !!! She was totally crushed, but I had warned her NOT
to let him do that stuff. She thought she was so hot, that he'd
never leave her. STUPID!!! I wanted to kick him in the B@LLS!
2006-08-24 18:28:41 · 22 answers · asked by CraZyCaT 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I heard she has remarried out of state to a
good guy....hope so. NO i'm not jealous of
her looks, I was making a point moron!!
I have loved her unconditionally, all r lives.
She has not been a very good friend to me
but she is still my cousin. And I'm not
gloating,...that was a bad scene. There is
a lesson here if u care to learn it......
2006-08-24 19:21:05 · update #1
i wouldn't advise it. i think if you are in a committed relationship, strip bars are out.
2006-08-24 18:44:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
That sucks! Do you really think every guy that goes to strip clubs is screwing the strippers? Eeeewww. Strip clubs can not be that clean, especially in the back rooms. Dancing naked on every tom, dick and harry. Who knows where all these men, or the women have been.
I hope this X hubby at least had the decency to wear a condom when he was screwing the stripper.
I don't think you can really tell a guy that they can't go to strip clubs. If they want to... they are going to go anyway. Wouldn't you rather know? I would think if the guy really loved you, he would not go as much and would certainly not screw the stripper.
I would hope! But, maybe I am naive.
2006-08-25 01:39:14 · answer #2 · answered by Just a Girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That particular guy sounds like a creep anyways. Your cousin is better off without him. Many guys go to strip clubs and there is nothing us girlfriends and wives can do about it except nag, which makes it worse. If a guy goes all the time that is bad. If he goes like once every two years that is understandable. There should be honesty and commitment in the relationship enough to know that you can look at the menu but you better not eat anything. I look at other guys all the time. It is human nature but I would never cheat with them.
2006-08-25 01:55:03 · answer #3 · answered by Blah Blah Blah 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea i agree with you because most men i know cheat on there wife's and girlfriends usually with uglier women!Just because your good looking don't mean you can keep someone faithful if your not doing something sexual he likes he is going to look else where and i don't care what she looks like.That's why half the time its skanks and whores these men cheat with .Because these women do what they like in bed so Ive always believed keep your man happy in the sack and your relationship should be a pretty good one.I hate to hear what happened to your cousin but you play with fire your bound to get burned!I'm sure she has learned her lesson to bad she had to learn it the hard way!
2006-08-25 01:37:38 · answer #4 · answered by blondie 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think that you, your pretty cousin, her fiance and the stripper should all particpate in a 4 some gang bang. that would be 1 dude and 3 ladies which would be totally awesome. i also believe that all women should let their male partner go to strip bars and cheat on them, but ladies shouldnt be allowed to cheat on men.
2006-08-25 02:15:30 · answer #5 · answered by peopleschamp713 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well a friend would not blab about another friend on yahoo and you sound a little happy about the situation if you ask me. She made a mistake we all make mistakes in our life hopefully she learned from this one. You need to stop being jelouse of her looks and be glad for who you are. You will probably make mistakes as well nobody knows for sure what your lover or spouse will do to you in life.
2006-08-25 01:34:30 · answer #6 · answered by luvlisteningtomusic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't want your man to go to strip bars, don't hook up with a man that goes to strip bars. The attraction to porn and strippers is very strong in some men and it's best not to have to compete with it. Find out before you buy!
2006-08-25 01:36:04 · answer #7 · answered by j g 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I am so sorry about your cousin situation. Kick him in the b@lls and he will go down like a sack of bricks and it will be pretty funny.
2006-08-25 02:01:27 · answer #8 · answered by Bowling Queen 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I heard that it is addictive even if the guy is not cheating. They spend all their money there and stuff. Also, it is a form of cheating. Your man should not want to go to strip bars if he is with you. Maybe she should have offered to go with him???
2006-08-25 01:34:21 · answer #9 · answered by AveGirl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't matter that this was a woman he met at a strip club. If his heart was set on cheating, he would have found a way to do it regardless.
2006-08-25 01:49:43 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I told my husband that he is more than welcome to go, but don't expect the doors to be open when he comes home. He can't even go to the bars! He's got no business out there when theres kids at home waiting for his spare time!no, no, no
2006-08-25 01:40:15 · answer #11 · answered by Nikie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋