Can't afford a boob job!!?

Question

I really want a boob job because after breastfeeding my son, and losing a tremendous amount of weight after having him, my boobs sag and have no fullness to them. I lay on my back and they actually fall to the sides. It's kind of embarassing and I am very self conscious about them. What will my sexual partner think about it? They were full before having them, not just because of the milk. Any suggestions as to how to firm them up without getting a boob job?? Serious replies only please!!!

Answer 1

Sorry, but if its really important to you to look your best, save up your money and have surgery, because that gives the best results. Otherwise accept yourself as you are.

Answer 2

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Answer 3

Accept yourself "as is". One of the most important questions to ask yourself is, "Am I considering cosmetic surgery for me or to please someone else in my life?" It is crucial for a candidate for plastic surgery to understand that it should never be undertaken to please another person—not your husband or wife, boyfriend or girlfriend, employers or co-workers. It should be done for you and you alone.

If you still desire surgery, here's info:

Breast Lift (Mastopexy)
Droopy breasts are a problem for many women - the result of weight loss, pregnancy, breastfeeding, or the normal aging process.
The Procedure: The most common surgery to provide breast lift is the mastopexy, which involves removing excess skin and a variable amount of breast tissue followed by repositioning the nipple higher on the chest. This surgery involves making incisions around the nipple and moving it higher on the chest wall. Often a breast implant is included to enhance the breast's shape. It is usually done on an outpatient basis, but in some cases the patient is hospitalized.

Length: 2 to 4 hours

Anesthesia: Local with sedation or general anesthesia

In/outpatient: Usually outpatient. Sometimes inpatient depending on type and length of procedure and patient's age

Common Side Effects: Temporary bruising, swelling, discomfort, numbness, dry breast skin. The incisions are typically red and noticeable for up to a year, and sometimes longer.

Complications: Complications are relatively uncommon. The main three are bleeding, infection, and scarring. Occasionally there may be some incision irregularities, in which case touch-up procedures or scar revisions may have to be done. There may be slight differences between the two breasts. If so, the plastic surgeon will perform a small touch-up procedure to reposition the nipple. Loss of nipple or breast skin sensation is rare.

Recovery: Following the procedure, it is very important to limit activity. Within two to three weeks, all sutures are removed. Recovery is generally complete four or six weeks after surgery. The size and shape of the breast continues to get better as time proceeds.

Results: Breast lift procedures may last a lifetime; however, as a women ages the breast will continue to sag and may require a revision or an additional breast lift or breast implant augmentation. You will need to consult your plastic surgeon as to which procedure is best for you.

Answer 4

BRAVA its a hella cheaper, and it is sooo much better for your body, because you grow your own boobs, and you can have any size you want, but it takes about 10 weeks to get a full size. do a google search for brava.
oh it is a bit expensive, 1000 dollares, but it is still cheaper than a boob job

Answer 5

Boob jobs don't look good. I'd rather be with a natural woman no matter how they "fall". Boob jobs look stupid, do you want them standing straight out when you are 60?? Go with natural!

Answer 6

You did a beautiful thing,you nurtured your child and i know hoe you feel mine are not as firm as before.Wait awhile,you may think its unimportant down the road.I say get a push up bra,they will look sexy and if you find someone you deem worthy of having sex with then he will think your breast are beautifull...my husband still loves mine after four kids...im harder on myself than he ever could be.

Answer 7

Congratulations!! You are a proud mother. Consult a good doctor/dietitian . Eating proper food will definitely help besides exercises.

Answer 8

how long has it been - wait at least a year , they will get most of their shape back - boob jobs are not worth the expense and the risk - I had afriend die from one- and do not go for an inexpensive job , they tend to be inexperienced docs. , do your research

Answer 9

Do a little bit of exercise to firm them up? Too much may seem manly, though.

Answer 10

Consult a physician and don't take off the street advise! You could do more harm than good! Discuss your concerns with your other if it is a concern of yours.... you never know, they may like it!