2006-08-24 16:47:56 · 22 answers · asked by CHRISTALYN M 1 in Beauty & Style ➔ Fashion & Accessories
The hardest thing is watching the person you love self-destruct and being powerless to stop it.
2006-08-24 16:57:12 · answer #1 · answered by Jazmanana 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the personalities and tendencies of the individuals in the relationship. However, I'd imagine being cheated on sexually would be the hardest thing to deal with in a relationship (emotionally anyways). The hardest thing about making relationships work is trying to patiently understand when your partner disagrees with you or acts in a way you don't understand or approve of.
2006-08-24 23:51:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh man. There are lots of things. I think a big one is cheating. If that situation ever comes up, most of the time people break up, and if they don't, they "work" it out but history is always there. And even if no one is cheating, because it is so prevalent and people are always talking about it in relationships, it is always a fear which can also be as destructive as the actual act. A death could be very damaging. Everything to an extent is hard.
2006-08-24 23:52:48 · answer #3 · answered by Amy J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sure is the "hardest situation" when you put a question like this under the "Fashion & Accessories" category and expect people to answer! First of all, do you understand what is a "relationship"?
2006-08-24 23:53:29 · answer #4 · answered by yuvan53 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say the loss of the couple's child. It's not something that can be fixed, and neither one of you can make it better by changing or compromising on something. Time can fade the pain, but it never goes away.
After that, I would say any kind of dishonesty. Cheating, gambling, drinking, drugs, thefts, etc... Trust is easily broken, but hard to restore. It would take a lot for a person to get past the hurt and find forgiveness. Then it would take a long time for that fragile, yet very important, aspect to be built up again.
2006-08-24 23:58:32 · answer #5 · answered by welches_grape_jelly 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The hardest situation in a relationship is , when you still have to deal with an ex wife/ex husband who is interfering in your relationship and turns your own children against you. You have to really love each other and respect each other and stick together.
2006-08-24 23:52:30 · answer #6 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think when two people are unequally yoked. I mean when one is a Christian and the other is not. You are starting off at a distinct disadvantage because the two of you have no common ground on which to make good decisions.
2006-08-25 00:01:17 · answer #7 · answered by Big Ed 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when one person has checked out emotionally. you are only in control of yourself. you can not force someone to love, honor, respect, and want to be with you, no matter how much you really want them to.
cheating, be it with someone else, or by themself. the couple may think they have it worked out, resolved the situation, but it never really is. the memories will always be there, floating around in their mind, disrupting any positive gains made.
death of a child. only a super strong marriage can survive this.
2006-08-25 00:02:15 · answer #8 · answered by rosey c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think the hardest is when things get rough, and you start thinking if its really meant to be, that was the hardest part for me
2006-08-24 23:50:42 · answer #9 · answered by Ashley T. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have a great reletionship with my other half,,,he says the most difficult thing in our relationship is getting me to put out more,,,mine is getting him to jump when i say jump,,,we get along rather well dont ya think
2006-08-24 23:57:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋