If i had a picture of the two them then you would agree that this was worth it. because i sure think so?
2006-08-24 16:35:08 · 29 answers · asked by meatball 1 in Social Science ➔ Sociology
let me add that both of these friends were openly cheating on their girlfriend. I introduced them to eachother. So I knew them first, and they trusted in me. I didn't go after them, but urning them down was to hard. And it wasn't just about the sex. Hell, The first time, me and her never even had sex. she just prefered my company over his. The second time, I had to step in because it was an abusive relationship.
2006-08-25 15:21:51 · update #1
Two girls seem one too many.
;-)
2006-08-31 16:35:21 · answer #1 · answered by Lawrence R 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, it does not make you a bad person. However it does not make you much of a friend either. If a short term gain is more important to you, than long term friendship, you are the one that will have to live with the consequences of that decision.
Sexual partners tend to come and go, but friendships can frequently last a lifetime. On a more positive note though; you have given your friends an opportunity to choose to forgive you; a choice that can greatly benefit them in the future, if they realize the true value of forgiveness. And I'm not just talking about the benefits of their relationship with you.
2006-08-24 17:10:26 · answer #2 · answered by eric l 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You took them? Or stole them (as the expression goes). Good friends don't come cheap, and burning bridges is a fools way. It doesn't matter what they looked like. If you thought it was a good thing to do, then why are you asking this question? In the end you must live with yourself, no one else does. Doing something because you can doesn't make it right.
2006-09-01 15:46:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This does make you a bad person, no matter how attractive they are. You obviously don't value your friend (ex friend by now I hope) enough to look for other attractive women because there ARE others. You sound like a terrible friend, no one I would ever want to meet or have relations with. I hope those two girls wisened up because you're garbage.
2006-08-24 17:18:37 · answer #4 · answered by the_umbrella 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its good that you stepped in on the second girl and fine with the frist because you didnt put pressure on her for sex. I hope not. but anyway stealing for a reason like girl #2 is fine it shows you care and are in fact a good friend. So no i would not consider you a bad person.
2006-09-01 07:30:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want to settle for being "sloppy seconds?' Do you really think so little of yourself that taking others girfriends actually means something? You can't take something that was never theirs to begin with. It'll be no different with you either, not that you'll understand that right now. Believe me, you didn't "take" them., much as your ego would like to believe you did. You were being used as well, whether you want to admit it or not. and that's why you're asking the question right now, because your self esteem is low right now and needs bolstering.
2006-08-30 20:49:37 · answer #6 · answered by mhiaa 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you really believe that you did the right thing because you r just helping out or do you realize that somewhere in there you are jealous or competing with your friend. And y do u insist on getting with someone after he has - that looks bad.
2006-09-01 13:55:28 · answer #7 · answered by camlankolche 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Where did you take them, and is it too late to give them back?
Maybe you just like the competition between you and your friends and the girls really don't mean that much except they were easily taken. Watch out for new friends who might like your friends girlfriends who seem to leave easily enough.
Good luck
2006-08-24 16:44:10 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK, you were definitely unethical and a really crappy friend in trying to seduce your friends' girlfriends. To be fair, though, the fact that you *succeeded* in seducing these girls meant that they had something to do with this too. Since people can't be owned, they can't be taken or stolen either.
2006-08-30 17:33:10 · answer #9 · answered by jk 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you describe them as being "too fine", then yes it probably makes you a bad person b/c it sounds like you're just a womanizer. also the fact that you said we would all agree if you had a pic of them, that makes you sound like a womanizer and a bad person.
2006-08-24 16:42:06 · answer #10 · answered by mighty_power7 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
And one of them was called Miss Right and the other was called Miss Left, yes?
2006-08-30 19:11:37 · answer #11 · answered by TC 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋