I got twin babies.and the godparents are great with them, the thing is the gMother tbabysit 2 days a week and I pay her 'cause is fair we help each other. My hubby and I get home at 6:30 and the GP stay up to 8:pm. and pretent to be with the babies on the weekends too. I'm fed up. I want to have a life with my Hubby and my babies. I started telling them I want to rest on the weekend , that bother them and now they have an attitude. How can I handle this. I need their help but they should respect the limits of time I need as a Family with my babies. They R ultra sensitive and I do not want to hurt them.
2006-08-24 16:12:09 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If they're the godparents they must be close friends so you can be honest with them. Tell them that you love how they are with the children.... but when you guys get home from work you're both really ready to do the mommy & daddy thing and since the children are still babies you don't have much alone time with them. They should understand.
Maybe they don't realize how staying 2 hours later then necessary is disrupting your family life.
2006-08-24 16:22:29 · answer #1 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you have your priorities in check. Your son is number one!!! You are a 26 year old mother and if you continue focusing on what other people have and what you don't have, you will go nowhere which will effect your son in many ways. And if you were not aware the purpose for having god parents is if something happened to you they would step up and guide the child spiritually. They are not obligated to do anything else and if the do then that's a bonus. You say you cant stand being around each other so why is he your fiance? It's not going to get any better once you get married and if you think it will you better wake up. Now it's time to get real and stop spending time looking to win your way out with sweepstakes, that's immature and a waist of time. Go to school, they offer free childcare to low or no income single parents, it's not too late to figure what you want to do for your career but you better do something because it's not just you anymore its you and your son. Good Luck
2016-03-27 04:20:12 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
See what happen is that they got to addicted and you was suppose to let them only do that for 3 days out of the week not the same person all the time it may seem funny but its true the kids will get use to them and they will also now your in the situation and it causes problems, what you need to do is get them around other people and go see them on your breaks of lunch plus tell the babysitter to keep them woke until you get home so they will know you guys are as their parents, also try for the godparents to take a break for the best interest in the twins they need to get around some different things and see so things in life............................
2006-08-24 16:26:57 · answer #3 · answered by clare26 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would sit down with them and my husband and explain the situation and set some ground rules and let them know how you honestly feel.
2006-08-24 16:14:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Kind but firm, set boundaries.
Good luck
2006-08-24 18:49:56 · answer #5 · answered by Fuzzy Wuzzy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your spelling is too bad, I don't even understand the question. Tell me English is your second language and all is forgiven.
2006-08-24 16:17:11 · answer #6 · answered by eddysmomma 4 · 2⤊ 2⤋