2006-08-24 16:04:32 · 16 answers · asked by Angietovar 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
It can. And the line between pain and pleasure is sometimes surprisingly vague and ellusive. Consider, though, that it is an enormous physical and emotional drive. I've been married twice and with both there were times that they were obviously in pain, but there were also times when they looked pained but were actually on the cusp of a mind-blowing pleasure (commonly called an orgasm). I remember stopping that first time I noticed such, she almost cussed me out for quitting just then. The second time I had sex with my second wife, got a giddy laugh and clapped and clapped and clapped. I don't think a lying-down ovation is very common but it was fun to watch. My first time with my first wife, which was her first time too, we didn't really know what we were doing (but it was fun finding out). She had been warned by her mother that it was awful so she was gripping down there for all she was worth when I was in a position to physically consumate our marriage. I couldn't understand, I saw where I was supposed to go. I felt out the place where I was supposed to go, but I couldn't fit in. Fortunately, at one such moment, she sneezed. That caused her to relax and I fairly fell into her. She grabbed me, sinking nails into my back--I couldn't tell if she was falling, scared or in tremendous pain. She stiffened, shuddered, shook, and then fell back as if she was exhausted. Her first words? "Momma lied to me."
2006-08-24 16:16:32 · answer #1 · answered by Rabbit 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you've had sex for the first time and it really really really hurt you should go to the doctor immediately. Once you become sexually active, it is imperative that you go to a gynecologist.
If you're just asking if it will hurt when you have sex, then it may a little in the beginning. But assuming you're under 18, please be extremely careful. The only safe sex is abstinence and their is nothing wrong with waiting. Please don't let anyone tell you there is something wrong with you just because you haven't had sex.
Be safe!!
2006-08-24 23:16:57 · answer #2 · answered by gottaspider 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not to the point that u will not want to do it agian. It hurts a little but if u are with a man who loves u and is concerned about how u feel he will usually be gentle with you and sensual enough that the presure or pain is not in the fore front of ur mind. You will be more happy to share such a intimate with someone you love. If the pain is so bad then no one would be having sex...........if labor pain was a more horrible experience than the arrival of a child then no one would have kids. So think about it? My advice would be to wait till u have someone that loves.
2006-08-24 23:13:50 · answer #3 · answered by exceptionallyexceptional 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For a girl yes it does. There is a hymen that is a peice of skin that is attached to almost all females it tears when you have sex and you bleed. It hurts do not let anybody tell you it doesn't
2006-08-24 23:07:23 · answer #4 · answered by luvlisteningtomusic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its uncomfortable the first time it doesnt really really hurt it just makes u sore afterwards is all and feel alil swollen down there and make sure u have a panty liner or pad bc the hymin gets rupsured and u bleed some but nothing to freak about..always use protection tho
2006-08-24 23:07:22 · answer #5 · answered by devil_queen_biatch14 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For girls yes. for guys heck no. But for chicks they bleed and the cherry pops. yeah it hurts. bad. dont do it if u dont want to. i'm a guy and i hate the guys that take advantage of girls or just convince them to have sex.
2006-08-24 23:10:31 · answer #6 · answered by matt 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no it doesnt hurt to have SEX, You should enjoy it with the right person, SEX IS GREAT When your with the right person!!
Sex is always fun no more when, where or what time of the dy!!
2006-08-24 23:08:46 · answer #7 · answered by cvcrcr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as long as he's gentle and ur wet enuff 'down there' then it shouldn't hurt.. unless it's ur 1st time, and then it might hurt a little bit cuz ur not used 2 having things so big up there.... that sounded really gross the way i put that!!! sorry...
2006-08-24 23:07:33 · answer #8 · answered by cassycookie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It hurts the first time you do it.
2006-08-24 23:06:00 · answer #9 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it really hurt, people would not do it and there would be a lot fewer people around.
2006-08-24 23:08:30 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋