my fiance had a heart attack and a defibillator and valve probe placement. He is 49 yrs old. after I nursed him back to health, he went back to work met a women about 15 years younger than me and ran off with her. He may have gone into some kind of depression but will not seek help. it seems he is not seeing life clearly, I found out he was drinking and smoking again. She is also a drinker. He has been with her for over 2 months now. I am still in shock and grieving.
2006-08-24 16:04:14 · 3 answers · asked by asuare1950 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
As hard as it may seem to you, you need to move on. I think he's trying to recapture his youth after a scary health episode. But if he thinks so little of your feelings after being with you for 10 years, you don't need that heartache nor do you need him. Go out, meet others, and don't let him come running back to you. Good luck.
2006-08-24 16:09:12 · answer #1 · answered by phoenixheat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Holy.....That's a rea complicated question to throw out on this site. You're gonna get alot of 'inexperienced' advice, but they mean well. But yea, I'm sure you're in shock, alright.I think this is the 1st time I've actually heard a real problem here. Unfortunately, I've got too much experience with shock and grieving. Too much to express here. You can e-mail me anytime, Remember, the young ones mean well, I know when someone tells me "You gotta move on', I want to crawl out of my skin. Anytime, D.
2006-08-24 16:22:13 · answer #2 · answered by lilybear 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on, write it down make a book about it and maybe you could make a profit off of it
2006-08-24 16:11:52 · answer #3 · answered by jasmine c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋