I don't know how to stop hating myself.
2006-08-24 15:57:25 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
I haven't done anything to anyone. I just hate everything about the person I am. I don't like myself at all. There is nothing to like.
2006-08-24 16:01:06 · update #1
You have negative 'self-talk'. Look in that mirror and say aloud, "You are beautiful!" and mean it. You would say that to a friend who wasn't as attractive as you are. You need to love yourself as much as your friends. Repeat this until you start realizing you are perfect just like God made you!
2006-08-24 16:01:35 · answer #1 · answered by swarr2001 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I answered your other question too, but I wanted to mention community service again. Anything from a walk to cure cancer, or selling baked goods for the blind might help to curb some of that hate that you feel towards yourself. Even if you hate yourself you can know that you make a difference and that you are helping someone else become who they are meant to be. And maybe throughout the course of helping them, they will in turn help you discover what it is about yourself that makes you unique, and likeable, and wonderful, because its there when you look in the mirror...you just can't see it yet.
2006-08-24 17:05:35 · answer #2 · answered by Cat/Curiosity 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes I look in the mirror or photo and I hate what I see back. I know I am pretty and attractive because I get told all the time I have beautiful eyes, hair and other things. Maybe find a new hobby or something that will make you happy
2006-08-24 16:05:30 · answer #3 · answered by MJane21 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry girl, you are definitely not alone in the world. Girls are actually more prone to feeling insecure about themselves, especially on their looks. It's easy to compare ourselve to people we see on the media and change our definition of perfection.
Pick a quality that you like about yourself. Are you humorous? Do you excell well at a hobbie? Maybe a certain body part? But always remember that NO ONE is the same.
Everyone has a inner beauty inside that has to be unlocked. If something about yourself is bothering you try going on a diet and jogging twice a week. This will produce more "happy hormones" in your body so you feel good about yourself.
2006-08-24 16:03:32 · answer #4 · answered by Euphony 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dreamer i look in the mirrow and see wut i can be and i dont look back at what i was and if i hate what i see i stop do what i can to change quickly and if i cant change quickly
id wonder if i have to change if i ever could stop looking in the mirrow and just live how i feel like living and dont worry about how i look
and if i cant stop hating myself id stop hating all together and if i cant do that then id at least stay real and live my life cause its my deal
then i would think maybe if i follow my path follow my own answer to my problems id grow and not think how other people think and wonder why people think people should look a certaint way in order to be happy
damn this crap is to long to be a answer damn i should stop
id hate to read all dis crap
well laterz
hope you find yourself...................
2006-08-24 16:11:33 · answer #5 · answered by latennighter 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you like yourself? Everyone is different, thank God! I used to do that to; whenever I looked at my lips, I wondered why they were not rosy instead of pink. In my high school junior year I realized I had plump lips. I didn't like my nose, my hair (I wanted to be blonde) or my round face either. It used to be rounder because I was chubby. But now, I think I look great because it's different, slimer and get a lot of compliments.
2006-08-24 16:12:08 · answer #6 · answered by nomucatoday 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
attractiveness is subjective :P each from time to time I do hate what I see in the replicate, each from time to time i love it. i visit sit down down hours in the front of it and despise my visual attraction even with the undeniable fact that the subsequent minute it would not seem so undesirable. You get used to it ultimately and comprehend you'll want to to settle for it how that is. and it really is perfect :) basically because it basically is! and it really is authentic! :) connect the selfish international that rages in the back of you, and end questioning.
2016-11-27 20:00:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I once did, before I asked Christ into my life. Now I can look in a mirror and kinda like what I see.
2006-08-24 15:59:29 · answer #8 · answered by stullerrl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hello
how are you
i look in the mirror
but i dont
i just see a sad face
but bilieveit
we should have a high confedence
we should fight with problems this could be an art for us to over come the problems
2006-08-24 21:24:36 · answer #9 · answered by hassan n 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Overall I'm good to myself. What good does it do you to despise the person you are? If there's a way to rectify a wrong you've done to someone, you can always make amends.
2006-08-24 15:59:52 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋