evenn though you love and you don't want to leave him but you have a lover just for sex ... i do not love this other guy i'm just want him for sex. is it bad to be with two people at the same time?
2006-08-24 15:47:50 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
my lover knows i have a boyfriend and that i love him...
2006-08-24 15:53:07 · update #1
my lover is also married. we love our spouses but they do not fullfill us in bed
2006-08-25 14:21:03 · update #2
No if you are not sexually fufilled I do not see a problem with it at all! I am a sex addict and I am not fufilled so . . . . . You just have to do what you have to do it's not love it's lust. I'm o.k with that!
2006-08-24 15:51:16 · answer #1 · answered by Alucard 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If I really love a man, I am not going to cheat on him. If I feel like the man is not meeting my needs or desires, then I will sit and talk to him and try to work things out. If things do not change then I will be honest with him and let him know that I feel it's just best to break off the relationship.
If you cheat on someone, you don't love them and you certainly do not have any respect for them either.
2006-08-24 22:53:24 · answer #2 · answered by HappyCat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it is bad because you can bring diseases to both people and the chain of people they see. I sure don't have any respect for your "lover" and he doesn't seem to respect you or your boyfriend. Let your boyfriend go and get a guy who you love and be sexually attracted to. My philosophy is "if you have to ask this question, or if you think it will hurt another person then don't do it.
2006-08-24 23:17:08 · answer #3 · answered by lexxy l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm afraid that what you call love isn't. REAL love, TRUE love would never even allow you to think about treating your spouse with such disrespect.
You should be ashamed of yourself...get counseling and try to straighten out the problems in your marriage WITHOUT causing more.
2006-08-24 22:52:39 · answer #4 · answered by Chatty 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You use the word love to easy.If you love someone you are not out to hurt them.Once a cheat always a cheat you give your self a bad name.Grow up and learn what love really is.What gos around comes around is that what you want,if not straighten act up.
2006-08-24 22:54:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is kind of a no brainer! Not to insult you but how can you say you love someone when your messing with someone else. You can't be with two people at the same time and claim you love one of them. You need to end it with one of them!
2006-08-24 22:51:23 · answer #6 · answered by Dana J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
obviously you and your husband don't have that kind of bond in bed. if you really love your hubby, ditch the other guy. you can work on the bedroom recreation. after all sex is just another form of communication between a couple.
2006-08-24 22:52:08 · answer #7 · answered by Thomas K 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
not only is it wrong,its unsafe. if you want an open realtionship then you need to inform all parties and allow them to decide if their cool with it, otherwise its a little whorish.------Moreover, the other guy doesnt care because your giving it up with no strings,ANY guy will do that if you allow it.
2006-08-24 22:53:14 · answer #8 · answered by Pretty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How in this world, can you confess to love someone, then go to someone else for sex,,,,,,,you do not deserve, the guy you claim to love,,, are you sure you know what love means............ think how hurt this guy would be if he found out,,, makes me hope he reads this...........
2006-08-24 22:53:10 · answer #9 · answered by avery 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Apparently you have a warped sense of love.
2006-08-24 22:51:48 · answer #10 · answered by orionsgirl76 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋