how would you accept me as I tried so hard to make myself straight but nothing happens and what should you do if you were on my shoes! I feel, I like men to complete my life but I am afraid of social pressures!Please don't humiliate me!
2006-08-24 15:31:25 · 11 answers · asked by Bruno 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
How would we accept you? Just like everyone else! I have many gay friends. Some I knew before they came out and others who came out years before. People are people, no matter which gender they prefer to date.
I hope that you can find acceptance within yourself. That's the place to start. Be who you are. Ignore those that treat you like less of a person and hold close those who show they love you. True people and friends won't turn their backs.
2006-08-24 15:38:36 · answer #1 · answered by *AstrosChick* 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, sometimes decency and sexual orientation can be two different things. A lot of heterosexual men and women lead lives that can be called anything but decent, and some gays (men and women) try to uphold high standards of decency (if you can be open to at least not judge the orientation).
If you really like men, but keep that hidden and supresed, you will most probably be lonely and sad. I'm 36, so I think that sometimes the social pressures can be intimidating, you can feel job insecurity. But you know what? People start to be less important than what you feel like. By 35, you should try to find a soulmate. You'll find that it's more important what you feel that what others think. good luck!
2006-08-24 15:49:28 · answer #2 · answered by Roberto 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A person should accept you no matter what your sexual preference is. If you feel like you're just dating men because of social pressures, then it really isn't worth it. If there is a man in your life that can complete your life and make you feel happy, but in a non-sexual way, then maybe having that person as a friend would be the best option. Also maybe that you're not truely gay, but bi-sexual, where as you have a desire to be with a woman sexually, but still be in love with a man on the emotional side of things.
2006-08-24 15:40:07 · answer #3 · answered by hammerhead_jd 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, i would tell you to not try to act straight. You have to accept yourself the way you are, no matter how hard it is. I do not know where you live so i can't really know how the social pressure is where you are, but i would say you should get over it. The way you ask the question, you do not seem happy with your life, i'm sure you would be happier if you accepted yourself. Be proud of being different. Life is short, you have to take the most of it. Just stay strong, and affirm yourself, no need to shout it on the roofs, but you have to be yourself, and be happy. In my opinion, it's the way to go. Hope it helps
2006-08-24 15:44:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
So many men and women have come out of the closet, you should too. Today's society are more accepting then they were years past. You need to take the next step and get involved with a partner. You will know if it was meant to be or not. Don't be so hard on yourself for being who you are.
2006-08-24 15:45:04 · answer #5 · answered by yellowflash 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
actual i might want to prefer to be with a woman who became a virgin, I evidently can no longer help yet be became off through the conception of a woman i'm with ever being with yet another guy, so out of selfishness i might want to desire there are nevertheless many women those who're virgins in there 20s and 30s as a thanks to strengthen my odds of being with one, ,yet i could not inform you the way common or sensible that is, and that i might want to represent pondering no matter if you've unrealistic no longer plausible expectancies that are suffering with from searching mr precise, no one's perfect, inclusive of your self
2016-11-27 19:58:54 · answer #6 · answered by springs 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I think there's nothing wrong with gay.
Any gay that I know is a good friend, and they don't ask their friends to "sleep" with them if his friends not gay too.
So? don't worry you have already been accepted.
And for those who despise you, just don't hear them, act naturaly don't angry or anything bad, just pity for them who can't accept other's nature.
And remember, proud for what you are (even people around you despise of you) cause I you do, You'll see what a wonderfull live you have.
2006-08-24 16:01:48 · answer #7 · answered by Joxie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, it's ok to go through life without ever having sex.You should concentrate on being happy and healthy,and don't worry about your sexual preferences.
2006-08-24 15:39:42 · answer #8 · answered by hott.dawg™ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, get on one of thoes friend finder sites and find a couple. Try them both out and see what works better for you.
2006-08-24 15:39:43 · answer #9 · answered by MAD MEL 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not a guy, but, if you are still a virgin, then how do you know you are gay?----You may just need a father figure in yoor rlife--not your lovelife--your life?
2006-08-24 16:12:08 · answer #10 · answered by bettyboop 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋