What you girls are doing? A question to mommy of 2/ 3/4/5 or more kids?

Question

1800- World population- 1 billion

1930- World Population- 2 billion

2000- World population- 6 billion

Can't you woman be satisfied with one baby and give that single baby best education and facilities rather then having 2/ 3/4/5 or more babies ?

We humans are number 1 in making mess. Last 70 years due to better technology and more sex, we have tripled our world population.

How many of us , out of 6 billion, are unwanted pregnancy? Unwanted pregnancy due to sexual desire.

Boys will be boys. It is upto you girls to stop after one kid and convince your boy.Through mutual discussion, one can go for surgery too. But you woman does not want to take first step and first step is stop after 1.

Woman see another woman having more kids and she have inner desire to reproduce more kids.Women feel she is incomplete without kids.

I am not against kid, i am against kids. Do one kid, divert all the resources and attention to that single kid (Boy or girl), have strong bank balance, take overseas trip, spend more quality with hubby. In the it is perception. A perception of having one kid and fully enjoying life with a single kid.

Any thing above 3 kid is sin. God is silent on earth. God will not guide you to stop after one kid. Global warming , by 2050 will guide you.

I will always be Childfree by choice. I am member of childfree websites. Either i will go for surgery or no sex.

Answer 1

I have two children and there is nothing wrong with that. I am married and my children are well taken care of. Children are gifts from God whether planned or unplanned. Sounds like your mommy didn't give you enough attention.

Answer 2

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Answer 3

Well, personally speaking I have had 5 children of my own and (1) step child. My oldest is 18 and my youngest is 20 months. I am 39 yrs old and I really dont believe it is any of your business or anyones elses how I have contributed to the population. I take care of my children with the best of care along with my husband now of over 9 yrs. I also dont persue the issue of child support from my ex. The state doesnt help in any way what so ever, and I am very happy to have had and raised these wonderful children. My children have the best education and all are all honor students at there school. So, what is it too you how me or any other women that have done the same with ou chidren repopulated the world.

Answer 4

I do respect your point of view, and to some extent I understand what you mean. i want to give you my opinion as well on this subject and I request that you please read it:

Indeed, as you said, there are many unwanted pregnancies, most of them in the less-developped-countries, where women are still used as sex sclaves by many men. They have no means of using protection, whether it be condoms, pills, or anything else, simply because it is too expensive or not available there. They cannot go for surgery either, because first of all it's even more expensive, and secondly they need someone to care for them when they grow older, as those countries do not have any kind of health system.

I am an only child myself, and I never want my kids to face the same problem. My hubby and I want many kids, 4-5. We will not have them if we should encounter any financial difficulties, as it is neccessary to be able to provide good education and good bases for your child.

The problem you are talking about is indeed only faced by the less-developed-countries. i am currently living in germany and it is on the news every time, Germany's population is decreasing because of people like you who promote this 1-child-politics. Germany is old, in 20 more years there is estimed to be 50% of the population over 65 years of age...

The mummies you are talking to here, even if they have many children, are the ones who have the luck to be educated and able to read, and have internet access. I could even boldly say that your message is not addressed to the right women. I would suggest you, to tackle this problem, to take on a job in a NGO and to go into specifically those countries where women are not educated and can therefore not avoid pregnancy and please help them by educating them. It would be a great service you rendered to them, as well as to your cause of trying to stop women who cannot afford it to have many children...

I hope you liked my answer, this is what I honestly think...

Answer 5

WHO THE **** DO U THINK U ARE TELLING PEOPLE HOW MANY KIDS THEY CAN HAVE.. All that matters is the love and comfort you could give that child and if u have more then one all the more power to you .. next time u want to rant and rave about populations look in the mirror cause ur part of this population too.

Answer 6

first of all, no longer all undesirable pregnancies come from sexual choose. and while you're talking proper to the those that save having unplanned babies, then state so. my hubby and that i pick 4 babies. why even complication having babies while you're in elementary terms going to have a million? we would like and family members, no longer an offspring. and until now you start up blaming females for inflicting the worlds issues by using having babies, in keeping with risk you may carry forth approximately recycling and taking extra useful care of our planet while you evaluate it somewhat is the place the artwork might desire to be carried out.

Answer 7

I want to know why you are blaming the lust of women and not men???

As the population has grown, of course the numbers will grow exponentially.
I hope you will save us though by not having any children of your own and thus saving us from another child that could overpopulate the earth.

EDIT:

NO WAY!! What a total cop out! "Boys will be boys", my ***!!
If you truly feel that way about population, you should be talking to the "boys" who feel its their right to procreate as much as they want.

Answer 8

I'm not a "girl" - I am very much a woman and have given birth to two beautiful daughters. They have grown into wonderful, productive, happy adults.

How dare you? Teach morality yes, but don't assume that anyone with more than one child has unwanted, unloved or unneeded children.

Answer 9

Well, akh098, how many children do YOU have? Have you had your tubes tied or had a vasectomy so you don't add to the population? And why are women to blame for this? Last time I checked, men were required for every pregnancy.

Answer 10

Wow..you seem to have it all figured out huh...Who made you God? Get a better outlook on life and lighten up. And just because you have an unwanted or unplanned pregnancy doesnt mean its an unwanted child.