My gf is mad at me and wants to break up with me.............she isnt calling me........the reason for this is she saw my picture on hotornot.com..........what the hell....thats not a dating site...........she got so pissed off...and never wants 2 speak 2 me
i gave her my email and pass so she can check my email cuz she doesnt trust me....and one email said ur hotornot picture has been approved...so thats how
i even called a flower delivery service to delivery 1 dozen roses 2 her house.................
2006-08-24 14:53:55 · 14 answers · asked by willie_wally 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
First of all, honey...take a deep breath and get a grip on your emotions! I know you're upset, but you're going overboard with her. Trust me when I tell you this...and I'm a woman so I know how this works...don't run after her like that and beg forgiveness.
You know you did nothing wrong, right? YOU know you weren't trying to cheat on her, or hurt her in any way. This is HER issue, not yours!
Now...get some paper and a pen, and write her a letter. Tell her something like "I know you're upset about that picture, but I wasn't trying to hurt you. I would never cheat on you and you know I love you, but you have to trust me. I can't prove to you that I wasn't doing anything wrong if you want to believe I was. All I can do, is tell you the truth. If you can't believe me, and you don't believe that I'm sorry...and that I never intended to hurt you, there's nothing more I can do. I do love you, but I did nothing wrong and I won't be punished for something I didn't do. If you want to talk, you know where to find me. If not, just know that I love you and I'll see you around."
I know it sounds like you're giving her the okay to break up with you, but son...the more you beg, the more she's going to let you. Like I said, you did nothing wrong. You know it, and SHE knows it. Don't sacrifice your pride by pretending you did. Put the ball in her court and let her come to you. She can't miss you if you never leave.
2006-08-24 15:06:30 · answer #1 · answered by Lisa E 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Roses are good thing. Try actually talking to her not over the phone but in person - like when you deliver those roses to her! Find out why she's upset about the picture - maybe she didn't realize that the website wasn't so bad and jumped to conclusions too fast. When I was dating and jumped to conclusions and then found out I was wrong - I was more timid at coming back to my boyfriend. But lots of talking and lots of cards and cutesy stuff won me over.
I would never give her any passwords to anything. She has to learn to trust you and same w/ you.
2006-08-24 22:00:26 · answer #2 · answered by l_scott88 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol well for one i think that she is overreacting lol I am a female and my ex nf had his pic on that sight and would talk on a few other sights and I was fine with it. The mistake on your part was giving her that info. You can change it. I would just let her cool off and see where it goes from there. If she does not understand that it was harmless fun then i think you need to seriously rethink the relationship. Hope it works out with or with out her.
2006-08-24 22:23:50 · answer #3 · answered by michelle_justice25 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yell her its not a dating site u love her with all ur heart and u dont want to loose her and u wpuld never do anything to hurt her but if shre dosnt trust u she dosnt love u there can be no love without trust
2006-08-24 22:01:24 · answer #4 · answered by all_canadin_girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on. She seems unrational and if she doesn't trust you so much that she needs to read your email, there isn't much of a relationship
2006-08-24 21:56:27 · answer #5 · answered by mamatohaley+1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you've assured her thats not a dating site and she still doesnt want to believe you then just leave it alone...move on.
2006-08-24 21:57:31 · answer #6 · answered by imUnCENSORED 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no matter how you feel explain to her that you were wrong in every way and you are regretfully sorry, tell her you have insecurity problems and you wanted to know other peoples oppinions on how you look to feel better about matching up with someone as pretty as her.
2006-08-24 21:57:29 · answer #7 · answered by jro 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You WUS! You give dudes a bad name..Suck it up and tell that Bee-atch to get a life!..lol
Good Luck
Jb
2006-08-24 21:58:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you must be older than her huh? she sounds like a lil school girl. man move on and find you a mature understanding woman
2006-08-24 22:05:33 · answer #9 · answered by Karen Elaine 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you make it your self. wait for a while and then done something she likes exentric and realy cute. and make her chek your email every day !!! get rid of everything like it .....
2006-08-24 21:57:06 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋