How to say No to a guy without hurting his feelings?
2006-08-24 14:48:35 · 15 answers · asked by rock firm 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
well , i'm a guy, and i would want the girl to sya something like "i'm not ready to see anyone yet. i'm sorry." and don't go out with some other guy a week later. put yourself in his shoes. pretty girls gunning you down hurts.
2006-08-24 14:53:33 · answer #1 · answered by Bruce Lee Reborn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know I said I'd call you up tomorrow. That didn't mean to sit home by the phone. You gotta give the girl credit she's ******* hardcore, she's banging on my door. I turn the lights out and pretend like I'm not home. It's not you, It's me. So don't you change a thing, I'm sad to say that your Dad was right. We'd never amount to anything. Maybe your best bet is another guy. First it starts out just like in the movies, then the romance slowly turns to the implied. I remember days wishing that I had someone, someone to call my own. But when my wish came true I wished I was alone. That's why I said... But then our song came on the radio, maybe it's a sign telling me you won't be back this time. I guess it's wrong to break up in a song, I can't stand to see you cry. I'll be long gone when you read this line.
2006-08-24 14:52:24 · answer #2 · answered by bluechick 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You look him in the eye and say "No." It should make him respect you. If he tries the old "If you love me you'll do it" routine, you look him in the eye again and say "if you love me you'll respect my answer". If he keeps on, then politely tell him you must leave. Keeping your self respect (and anything else) is much more important than his feelings.
2006-08-24 15:09:27 · answer #3 · answered by blondee 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just say sorry but i DONT want a relationship, if he dont take the hint then tell him to get the hell away from me your driving me crazy, feelings dont come into it, if he really likes you it will hurt no matter what you say,
2006-08-24 14:54:31 · answer #4 · answered by KATIEKAT 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I usually just brush them off when they declared their feelings. Sooner or later they got tired of the pursuits and will go in search for other chase.
2006-08-24 14:51:54 · answer #5 · answered by Blissy 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
okay...i know this may come as a surprise...but men are not as delicate as they look. they tend to handle rejection a hell of a lot better than women do. but be honest and confident. you won't hurt their feelings...but they also won't take you seriously.
2006-08-24 14:56:33 · answer #6 · answered by ~ayla~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you hurt their feelings more by not being honest. most guys would rather hear a "get lost" than get mixed signals.
2006-08-24 14:52:02 · answer #7 · answered by puertoricout 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Explain to him the situation . don't just say no.if you aren't honest with him you will be hurting him more.
2006-08-24 14:51:54 · answer #8 · answered by StarShine G 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about his feelings and just say NO.....Do you think he will worry about your feelings when your giving birth? Will he even be around if that happens?
2006-08-24 14:53:35 · answer #9 · answered by Sunshine 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
just do it baby. better tell him right now then latter how about:
"listen you are cute and everything but i am not redy for anything with you now so just dont waste your precious time on me i am sure you will find better"
2006-08-24 14:52:30 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋