Has a sexual partner ever made you feel 'small'?

Question

Hi guys,

Are women responsible for all these size questions on yahoo? Or is it men just being a little paranoid? I'm trying to find out :)

So, out of interest, have partners of yours ever made you feel 'small' down there? If so how? What did you do?

It doesn't matter much honey. If you're over 5" you're fine, if not it's still ok but you'll have to work a bit harder that's all.

* ah ok...so guys watch porn and think that those guys are normal? *gross* -over 8" is painful (for me). Most important thing is girth without a doubt ;)

Answer 1

The perenial question of size on a male is as timeless as big breasts on a woman. However, men have been obsessed with their self-esteem issues surrounding their member's size more consitently over the decades than other sex-esteem issues.

Basically all men wonder if they are big or wide enough. Males who have a penis under 8 inches long will begin to wonder if they have a normal sized tool, or if it is big enough to satisfy their partner(s).

Pornography also adds to the low self esteem since male performers are chosen specifically for their larger than the norm members. Not every other guy is built like Lex Steele or Peter North. Even so, males still compare their own tools to the ones their see in these flicks even though it's no secret that the male performers are not to be considered "average" sized!

Men also need to feel like what they are packing is enough to satisfy their woman. Most women know that the easiest way to humiliate a man is to ridicule his package, so the other way around works too for building up self esteem. In my case, I know my wife has had many much larger d*cks in her past, and although for years it would disturb me to think I wasn't up to par with some of the fellows of her past, I am now secure enough to not care about it at all... The fact that she is straightfoward to me at all times and our open communication helps alot too. Basically she says I may not be the biggest she's had, but I am perhaps the widest (girth) and deffinatly the hardest and most intense lover she's ever had. She also did admit that my slight curve is the perfect angle to stimulate her G-spot!

All in all, I know I am an average-sized at best. My length is not all that impressive but I do have a good girth (too wide for most women to accept an*l sex from me) and I don't ever feel particularly less-equipt than others. Feelings like these can't help the cause so it's better not to dwell on it.

Past lovers: I actually never had any past lovers/one-night-stands that ever made me feel lesser of a man than most. In fact, the only 2 women who have ever made me feel small were my current wife, but that's because she would tell me about her past lovers and I would let myself feel inadequate. The other woman was my 1/2 sister back when we were 15 or 16 and she would talk at length about her then boyfriend and how well endowed he was... I was still a virgin back then and it made me feel very self-concious about my own equipment, but again, it was by no fault of hers.

Basically, being in the p*rn buisness myself, doing my own productions, I don't let myself feel any "smaller" than I should. I know I am not the biggest tool in the shed but I know how to use it and I have had no complaints. Like I said, there is no reason for men to dweel on such matters since there is never an answer good enough.

Cheers

Answer 2

I think they're being a little paranoid, and probably most of them are teenagers just beginning to learn about sex. I am 21 years old, and a virgin, so I really don't know how I measure up. Of course, I think all women will exaggerate when posed the question "How big am I?" because they suspect our feelings are bound to be hurt if they tell the truth. One girl, who was feeling me down through my jeans when we were going out, said I seemed thick. I really have trouble believing that. I measure a little over 6" in length, and close to 5" in circumference, which is supposed to be about normal. It seems like that would be enough to please a woman to some degree, but I don't know what exactly to expect. I guess it's not worth thinking about too much until the time comes to use it.

And something else that doesn't help is when we hear or read about women using dildos on themselves. I read one advice column where a woman started using one with her husband. A few months later, she wanted the 10" vibrating dildo AND her husband inside her at the same time (and she claimed that her husband was "a solid 6.5"." (!) ). Of course, her husband felt terrible about it. But she couldn't seem to get it through her thick head that he felt very inadequate and hurt because of what she was doing. I know some women are looser or deeper than others, but damn!

Another source of insecurity is that many men are first exposed to the idea of sex through pornography. I think it's good for teenagers to do some research, but they will get the wrong idea when they see a monstrously large penis splitting open a woman in those porn flicks. I guess it happens in real life occasionally, but the fact is that most men are not hung that heavy. And on top of that, the teenagers watching the film might still be growing, so they would think they're even smaller than normal.

I still don't know what most women prefer. I've seen lots of sites that say size doesn't matter much except in extreme cases, but I've also seen some that say women prefer men to be hung way heavy (much more than just average). I guess it will be impossible for me to find out before I meet a woman worth my time and energy. Have a good night!

Answer 3

well im 13 and i have never had sex but i imagine they ask size questions (i did to) because they dont know if they have a big or small penis

Answer 4

A was once with a girl that was like f***ing a catchers mit.

Had to nail her in the ***.